Perplexities of Life

In life it is okay to feel sad. It is not necessary that you have to be happy always, that's not possible.

So give yourself sometime. Don't push yourself to come out of it. Life is not a race to happiness.

Even sadness can teach us a lot.

And ultimately sadness is also a phase, just like happiness, it too shall pass.

In life everyone's fighting their own battle and want to be understood by others. Fight against insecurities, fear, self worth ,confidence.

They long to be accepted and felt wanted as it's difficult to accept loneliness. When you start feeling alone you tend to grab people's attention, the need to be accepted.

People want to be part of someone's life.

It becomes important that someone validates your action.

You need appreciation that you are right and there is someone for you. 

Everyone's trying to figure out life. No one knows what it is and there's no one way or the correct way for it.

Everyone's right!

People start building expectations from others in search that the other person will handle them. They will take care of them.

But everyone's meaning and expectations differ which create problems.

You think you are right because you feel no one knows you better than you yourself. Many times that is not the case.

Your small things and habits define you. It becomes who you are and you do not realize that but many times we assume it to be correct because we are doing it.However the other person can see through it and can understand your nature.

Sometimes we don't do things the way we talk or feel.

One may preach something but may not do it.

Other people then assume things and act accordingly.

Preconception is a killer; it can make wrong notions and spoil everything.

You should try thinking from the other person's perspective to be able to explain them your perspective.

You should work upon knowing yourself and working upon your shortcomings.

It's easy to give advice but not follow it. It becomes a point of ego, how can I be wrong. I don't need to follow it because I am doing it the right way only you don't understand it.