Fight

 

Fight is an inevitable part of any relation but does that mean that if two people fight they don't like each other?  

No! that's not true. Fight is an element which either grows the relation stronger or breaks it.  

When do we fight? 

It is usually when we have certain expectations from the other person.

When we are close to a person, we feel that the person will understand us and support us but many a times two people don't have the same approach to the same things and as differences increase fights increase.

People say that to stay happy one shouldn't have any expectations from anyone. This is not always possible, it is in human nature. Expectations increase as you grow closer to each other.

In any relation, it is good to put your point of view, it is necessary to to discuss each ones thoughts. It is not a bad thing to fight, the key is how you make up after a fight. How you sit down, analyze, understand both sides and discuss the issue. The fight shouldn't be about "you" and "me" or a blame game, it should be about "us". 

In today's times things are moving in such a fast pace, we forget to stop and think what we actually want. Relations are more about you and me than about us. We put our expectations in the other and vice versa and when those aren't fulfilled, we fight. 

We fight not to make things right but to prove we are right. We fight to hold on to the person but on our own conditions of expectations. Everyone is lost and lonely, we all crave attention and love. 

We all have an unrealistic idea about love and relations and we chase those without knowing what we are actually looking for.  

The strength of a relation lies in how well you can put forward your thoughts without the fear of being judged. 

When a person can communicate his/her feelings even after knowing that the other person doesn't agree to it but the person will listen and try to understand without any judgements. This is what is imperative in any relations. 

Its okay to make mistakes its okay to get angry. What is more important is to own your mistakes and reflect upon your actions. The race of life is not about who is at the top but the race is with oneself. Life teaches you something everyday and its upto to us how we see it. 

The concept of two bodies one soul doesn't exist. Two individuals have two different thinking and approach, it s not that one is right and the other is wrong. Both compliment each other. The two imperfect pieces fit together to be one without losing oneself.