If Only You Tried

One of the biggest realizations in life comes when you realize the people surrounding you stop trying to keep you in their life. You feel that in their actions. You see no efforts. You see no communications. People relate these feels only when they are in their romantic relationships or married lives. But is it limited to only these? They are felt with the most loved people –with family, with the closest of kin’s, with the closest of friends and colleagues. They are never limited.

There comes a point or phases in life when you do need to keep out some people out from your life because they become so toxic to your life that the well being gets affected and you feel to keep out touch with him or her. But still, you keep going. Do we need to keep narcissists in our life? Do they matter?

There should be a focus on this. There should be a realization who matters and who doesn’t. There should be people in your life who don’t need any explanation of your existence and neither do you need to ask them. You just know they matter to you and will keep the relations always alive. They should be the ones who give genuine guidance to you and can be counted as well-wishers.

As men and women both are really necessary that we figure out the people who matter to us. Let’s make more efforts on the people who matter- our parents, our close friends, and colleagues and most importantly the unpicked strangers in your life who just supported you because you had a good heart and you were in your difficult times. Don’t lose them. Make efforts every day. They can be kept. Multiple people can be kept. Listen to them and work out on the relations. One day it will definitely be an achievement.

Keep trying for the good souls! Recognize them and step towards it!