This Is How It's Going

One of the most valuable lessons in your life will be the way you heal after you've lost someone you've loved.

Don't hold on to relationships or friendships just because of the memories or how long you've been together. Some people are temporary because they're only meant to be lessons. And someday, after you've healed and moved on, you will realise that these lessons were always meant to lead you to everything you've always deserved.

Heartbreak isn't always a sad ending though. Sometimes it sets in motion a profound transformation where you work truly on loving yourself.

Part of your life will have to fall apart for a new version of you to emerge.

It won't be easy, healing yourself, building new habits, observing reality without projection or delusion. This is work that takes effort.

However, if flowers can grow back even after the grimmest winters, then so can you.