THE WISE USE OF ANGER

Anger is one of the deadliest enemy of human beings which spoils everything in one's life. Every quality of man has both positive and negative impact . So anger, as it is an adverse quality for better living of mankind, it should be used wisely at all times. We would like to define it in a imaginary story below.

Once a wealthy merchant was living in a suburban village named Kumarpur. His name was Kuber. As per his name he was alike. He had only a son named Karam who was reading in nearby college. After completion of graduation, he was admitted in University to complete post graduation. Mr. Kuber was excessivly loving his son Karam, nevertheless, he could never express his cordial affection at any cost. As Karam was a brilliant student, he was being loved by his parents as well as by all of his relatives. Moreover his reputation was on peak while he passed the post graduation being topper in University. However one shortcoming that Mr. Karam became careless for his life and future career due to extreme fondness of his father, not his mother Uma Devi who always trying to put a ban on extremity. Because Kuberji was sumptuously paying money to Karam

for his pocket expenditure which was the minus point of her husband's attitude often irritated Uma Devi.

Time moved on. After completing PG Karam was a little bit astray in disguise that his parents were fully unknown about his activities out side the home. He enjoyed the modern facilities by spending his father's money gradually during the period of

leaving University and getting a source of income. As his father was an distinguished merchant of the locality, Karam was not so serious for his own future or to stand on his own feet. On the philosophical standpoint we may consider about social sphere that man is inborn social being. The friendship is an important part of socialism that makes a man cooperative to one another in every phase of life. In society there are two types of friends. One is bad and another is good. Bad friends impart derogatory impact whereas good friends impart that of dignitary among a friend circle generally out of which Mr. Karam was not an exception. Consequently he was associated with some of his bad classmates who were always putting a vulture-eye on Karam's money only, not on his brilliancy. They gradually began to instigate Karam for carnal as well as alcoholic and narcotic enjoyments. Karam due to his

unemployed stage, he was psychologically inclined to such type of hellish enjoyments. Everything he was doing secretly in a place farther to his native place. The good people who were well known to his father, Kuber and were loving him too much for his moral characters,notwithstanding, he was rich. But for the influence of Kuberji they were not willing to inform about his son Kuber's activities. As a result of which Karam became more astray and started hood winking his parents regularly by emotionally blackmailing . Even he was enjoying call girls and gigolos at 5 star hotels wantonly with his accomplices in drunken get up.At hook or crook he started exploiting his loving father to fulfil his passions.

In this way, more than a year passed away. Karam's carnal and alcoholic enjoyments crossed it's limit. One day at 11 pm he returned home after attending a party in a stupefied condition and his mouth was smelling highly. As his mother was a very pious lady, she shouted out loudly because of aversion and slapped Karam. At that time Kuber babu was off home on business affairs. Getting a strong slap Karam fell down on the floor. Then totteringly he jumped on his bed and slept. Next morning Kuber babu was informed by his wife while he returned home. But Kuber ji assured his wife Uma Devi to wait silently that their son must be set right within a very short time. Then only Kuber ji had a glance at his son Karam who was still sleeping though it was 8 AM. Then he refreshed himself in the washroom and enjoyed a delicious snack prepared by Uma Devi. After getting solace from her husband she made herself busy in domestic works. Owing to a long plane journey Kuberji was extremely tired and was prone to take rest in his bed room.

As Kuber Jee was always busy on his business affairs he could not have ample opportunity to be meticulously vigilant on his son's activities after Karam's academic career was over. Now after coming to know about his son's perversity as per the Uma Devi's information, he became alert. So he deployed some private detectives to observe Karam's activities. Kuber Babu was only waiting for the chance when he could afford to catch Karam rendhandedly on the spot. This chance came after a month at 11 pm while he was informed over telephone about the whereabouts of Karam who was in a city brothel. No sooner Kuberji got information than he rushed to the brothel. He saw Karam on the bed sleeping with five numbers of beautiful call girls engaged in sexual

plays. The situation jolted the affectionate fatherhood of Kuber Babu who has been cherishing a decent hope for Karam's future. Hence a severe mental crisis captured his mind whereby he lost his temper. His eyes turned red hot charcoal. His hands drew out a snake whip from the attache case and started whipping mercilessly as if he was beating stray bulls.

Kuber babu's whipping process mixed with reformative anger came to an end while interfered by his beloved wife Uma Devi. Motherly heart was upset which guided her to embrace Karam, her loving son. There were no call girls. Only father, mother and son inside the room. Karam was dropping warm tears from his eyes in repentance. He suddenly jumped down from the cot and he was completely free from alcoholic pressure. He lay down flat on prone position and touched the feet of his parents. He realised the genuine cause why he was so severely beaten and apologize, "O my Dad and Mom I had actually been perverted. I could not know the value of my life before as I know today. Dad! Your anger was quite justifiable. Had you displayed such type of your ferocious anger before two decades ago, I could have never been so perverted as I am today. Besides your and mom's extraordinary love, stood as an obstacle before me which didn't allow me to realise the efficacy of true human life. Today I repent and promise before you touching your sacred feet that I determinedly I must give up all bad companions, liquors and carnal enjoyments throughout my life from now on. Please pardon me. "

After hearing such apologizing solicitation from Karam,the solid heart of moralistic Kuber Babu began to melt like a glacier and told, " Wake up my dear son your view is fully correct. Your mom and myself love you so much because you are our only a son who can keep up the glory of our well reputed family. Ts why today I whipped you which act is not any way applicable to you as you are a full grown higher educated man,not a naughty kid. Please never that take it otherwise. " " OK papa I never mind. You have done just. You have used your anger wisely to rectify me and resurrect my true inner human sense. So it is too late now. Let us depart from this hellish house as soon as possible.'

It was 1 am. The trio came back home and entered their respective bed rooms. Next morning Kuber Babu telephoned to one of his industrialist friends and recommended for a job for Karam. As Karam was PG in Commerce and completed the course of Chartered Accountancy,he very easily got a job as per the recommendation of his father. After a week arranging necessary documents he joined in the post as an Accountant. Then Karam deeply realised himself and sticked his duties sincerely. After two years he married to a beautiful loving girl as arranged by his parents and established his own chamber of commerce nearby his residence. The wise use of power of anger was able to change the course of life of astray Karam by converting him into a able bodied human being who had capacity of allotting thousands of unemployed young man and ladies of his mother land with bread and butter.