Road that must be taken

Most of the time we gets confused for which road we need to take.

Either the one our heart is willing to have or the other which usually turns to be our parents favourite

It's not like that parents are always wrong , but it's all that some times they fails to understand what their child is trying to make them understand.

In their wish to follow the road of their parents sometimes they lose their children.

Some for a couple of months and some for life long.

As parents expect their children to understand and take up their decission as the final one.

Same, parents too need to understand that forcing their will on their children would either destroy their career or destroy them.

And I strongly believe no parent would love their children destroying them in the furnace of dead heart.

Let you child be free.

let them choose the career of life they want.

Let them for once feel like they have grown up.

Let them also know the real faces of society.

Let to feel connected with the nature outside the house.

Keeping them in the sheet of your love will not make them strong and bold.

Let them to put their views on some topic.

I agree as they are young they will find solutions like a younger brain would and maybe they may give inappropriate or wrong feedback but let them speak up and show efforts to the situation nothing much but atleast it will make them confident to find and support views and answers too.

Keeping them away from all situations and not having their feedback will make them nerd and they will never give any response fir the on going situation, and I bet that time you will shout at your child yelling I didn't knew I'll be giving birth to a dumb and idiot child who doesn't know how to interact react or answer anything.

But parents, wait a sec , the time he was supposed to grow up and get knowledge by putting some right or wrong views in on going situation it was you, yes you, who held him/ her back telling that they are child they are not supposed to be in this type of Convo's, if you were right at that time than what's the point of shouting right now.

Your children had been growing as you instructed them.

I dont think there's any use of shouting or cursing yourself for bringing up a child like him/her.

Either in their childhood you had to let them know the value of views or words or by the growing age you had to let them free to speak their words and views.

But a short point for children too if you are getting freedom of speaking, and enjoying your life on your terms it doesn't mean you can do anything, it doesn't mean you can shout at your parent and do anything whether right or wrong. No a big No,,, freedom when used in limit is acceptable beyond limit their's nothing which can be tolerated.

Same goes with parents controlling your child's life upto a limit is what a child can accept beyond it either they becomes so dumb or becomes so arrogant and out of control that even your strict tortures cant bring his innocence back.

By this I just want to tell to every parent, too be parents, or to the girls and boys reading this.

Parents especially before deciding or choosing anything for your child just for once take their views too when you ask them while having their favorite food favorite dress favourite toy why don't you take the courage ask them for their life changing decisions.

You choose a career for them acc. To your convenience your knowledge ,

They fail you complaint.

Have you ever wondered what all they could do by following their heart?

You choosed a partner for them again acc to your society image, convenience and wish,

Marriage failed you blamed.

Have you wondered if they had choosed a partner they loved how peaceful, calm, and loving their life would have been.?

You choosed a house for them acc to you.

House was cursed you blamed,

What if your child had planned and build it acc to them selves.

How happily they would be living their.

For just your own personal experience and opinions dont ruin your child's life. Not every time you can be correct only every time you are a winning player.

Sometimes your children's have much more clear things than you.

So value their views and opinions too.

It's for the benefit of both of you.

Let them take the road they want and just wait for result good or bad leave on hard work.

Don't let them feel suffocated by your decision, even let them be free and build them selves.