Mental Filter !!

One thing we know we were all born the same!! Some even say it to an extend that all the babies look the same.

How we see, how we receive, how we react, how we store is What we are made of. More than often, we are born being pretty much on the same page.

Humans, universally, in every language, every tradition, every country, are taught the same basic mannerisms and habits.

Good and bad was very pretty clear as a child.

Eating food on time, being respectful towards yourself & others, being kind and we were taught being patient too as a child, while we waited for our time to slide, or wait for our turn of watching tv show.

Gradually, during the process of growing up, we start changing, we are more aware of what and how we like things. How much patient would we be with things, how much calm would we really be closing our inner chatter, while waiting for our turn in life…while we are waiting for universe to respond to our needs.

We unknowingly start operating from our subconscious mind, how a piece of information is presented to how we see it and decode it is our personality. This is such a crucial and such a delicate moment in our lives that we don’t know how to decode the things as they are.

We as humans are so fond of labeling everything as we are growing up, that we confuse them as a part of our own selves.

Well, the Mental Filter is the only thing that can we can control, and monitor at all times to avoid the outer conflict and stop the inner chatter.

Mental filter is inbuilt, it is created over the lifetimes of learning, and not learning or being aware or ignorant. That makes our filter.

Few of us are really good at using our filter, people who are dedicated to be happy and choose only the good in a person, ignore whatever is being said or done in anger or in disappointment.

They take the crux of the matter living in awareness.

Some of us, have our filter clogged with our past experiences of this lifetime or of previous lifetime, that we are very cynical about every big and small thing presented to us by life, offending leading to arguments, mistrust and so on. These filters make one of the many aspects of our lives, but the strongest and toughest filter is to maintain is of integrity.

Mr. A was out with Mr. B and Mr. C. They went out for a drive.

On seeing a man walking beside his cycle and drag‐gang it along the road with scorching heat, made them wonder and stop and observe what was this man up to.

Mr. A said, I don’t think he knows how to ride a bike.

Mr. B said, I don’t know how absurd can this be.

Mr. C said, I see he needs some water and some help may be.

Similarly, when we are posed with a situation in life, we see it as a threat or an opportunity, it all depends on our mental filter.

Well this mental filter also has an exceptional use of filtering our emotions.

Emotional abuse is the new thing that is pushing lot of us in our corners. Emotional abuse is more to do with how and what we are made to feel low emotionally and our well being.

If we work strongly and with sincerity towards cleansing and clearing our mental filter, we can come to know about our strengths and what our soul is made up of.

Like, how DNA is unique code of each one of us and each has its own. Our soul, is just that, each one of us have His grace and light, it just depends how and where we are mentally placed and our light glows accordingly.

If we don’t see the sun on cloudy day, or a rainy, in spite of being day, we almost end up saying, “Oh Damn, Sun hasn’t shown up even today…”

Sun is wearing his filter that day, in spite of being the strongest we just cannot see the light, we grow ignorant of his shine and just pull ourselves through the day.

We are just a small particle of the same light, and most of us carrying heavy clouds of past, hurtful experiences, failures, unsuccessful relationships and so on. We just block our own light in a big way.

Rather, than struggling and pulling down ourselves further that why do I have these in front of me, we rather should invest believing that these will pass by, if we invest in how to increase our brightness we will shine brighter through each of our challenges better.

Mental filter, helps us exactly to build this.

Guard yourself. Don’t be arrogant in protecting yourself. Love yourself.

Don’t belittle others. Grow with love and stay humble.

Be the reason for people to look up to and have the courage to move their clouds too.