Let's Welcome Change.

Mahatma Gandhi said, "You must be the change you want to see in the world." In other words, although life changes are inevitable, we can also initiate personal change so we can rise to the challenge and become a bigger and better person as a result.

We spend a lot of time trying to change other people. There is, after all, so much wrong with them: they’re selfish, arrogant, bullying, weak, cold, needy and so on.

But we never try all these things on ourselves.

Instead of changing habits of others and suggesting them to change we have to implement all these things on ourselves first.

We gossip create humor laughs at others impersonations but somewhere we too have some imperfections. But who cares we have to point out other's mistakes humiliate them, discourage them and do more such stuff but what.. actually we can't blame people for this we are grown with this mentality only we have no rights on such.

If we are the ones to create such stuff then it's also we who can destroy this discrimination and create a new world.

But the condition is we have to start first and be the change by ourselves then step by step people will grow up and try changing them.

However, we’re prone to miss an important insight: changing how you behave to others can be the fastest way to alter how others behave towards you.

And we don't learn this fact from others instead our own houses teach us this first.

This change can be brought by our houses first and changing a bit in our attitudes too like it's a human psychological we tend to be an in a mirror behavior with others. If someone is aggressive around us, we become aggressive back.

If someone is gentle, we become soft in return.

If someone acts wisely, it’ll draw any latent reserves of wisdom out of the audience.

Instead of getting angry when another one is already angry we can be polite towards them and solve the matter but instead, we might quite angrily suggest that someone else calm down. Or we may bullyingly insist on a person that they try to be more empathetic. We deserve sympathy. It’s the agitation and anxiety of trying to teach that can easily take us far from the behavior we’re advocating.

We are humans and not robots, robots are suggested to do stuff as instructed in their memory card they have no control over them, they act under human control. But we humans can control ourselves, we can change ourselves, we can create ourselves, we can build too.

But this will happen is we follow the concept of "change yourself first".

This change yourself first concept has one great advantage: we can control ourselves while it’s remarkably hard to exert any sort of direct control over anyone else. Our disappointment with other people should be redirected towards exerting control over the one thing we can reliably command: ourselves.

All we need is the creation of positive vibes In us and neglect the negative vibes.

Then only we can change our minds and thoughts and seeing us the world will also try changing them towards themselves towards others and all.

Change is the big step for a peaceful life. So let the change be loved by you.