( A write up on social issue)
The modern life has become highly complex. Only a few know the secret of true happiness and parenting is perhaps the only job that we figure out as we go along. Immense socio-moral, ethical and religious significance can build a successful marriage. And, healthy child-rearing demands respect, affection, understanding, trust, commitment and companionship between both the parents.
It is love and understand that make man happy. Right from infancy, the children are subjected to the ordeal of getting into grind of the education system. Children often reawaken painful feelings that we long ago blocked from our awareness. Parental and peer pressure takes its toll on the child. At times when there is an emotional connection, parents may be uncomfortable even feel anger toward child. The ambivalent parents’ attitudes are simply reflection of the anger attitudes they have toward themselves, which are a by-product of parents’ fundamental conflicts. As it is because, of the inherent weakness of parents, family members find so much sin, evil and unhappiness. It is an indeed a tragedy that parents have become a victim of their own lust.
The Modern society passing through a phase of rapid metamorphosis breaking down the norms of age-old customs and conventions. Consequently, several marriages irreparably and irretrievably breakdown. When divorce happens, it is destructive, heart breaking, financially crippling and has a devastating effect on the children. Adults will get over the divorce, children do not. Our society believes that mothers play a greater role in nurturing children. But, fathers, too, play an equal part in rising the kids.
It is important to draw a line and help children learn to protect themselves, how to deal with falls and fights, what is safe and what id dangerous and how to be adventurous without sacrificing the safety. We ignore the little joys, the smiles all these can create by fathers, what does it pertaining to mean for good parenting. Both mothers and fathers need to trust each other to care for their children, Moms need to encourage their husbands to participate in their children's care whatever the actions coming ups, while the presence of a father's love do more to boost children's sense of well- being and improve their emotional and physical health.
Above all, child is unique for both mom and dad, couple must get input, no matter how obvious or subtle and they must remember that their roles as a parent really are essential. They should not opt on an informational and emotional overload that may cause the couple to feel overwhelmed and confused. The goodness of the family is really in the hands of patents who can bring about a reawakening in family’s consciousness. We should encourage men to become more involved in their children’s care. But in any case, we cannot compare who is the best as their responsibilities are also equal. Both the parents equally affect their progeny’s behaviour, self-esteem, emotional stability and mental health.