Coz, Your Heart Has Decided!!

They say the qualities you observe in a person are the reason why you love that person. I argue this thought. You choose a person...actually your heart chooses a person and all you end up doing is love that person. She knows he is busy enjoying with his friends, still she awaits his calls. Doesn't she know that this is not the quality to fall for? She does. She really does. Still, she spends sleepless nights. He knows, she throws tantrums way above his potential to handle, still he never fails to hug her to calm her down. That one guy once called her fat in front of all her college friends and she didn't talk to him for the whole semester. But now, this one guy, she loves nags her for being fat....but the love she has in her heart for him, doesn't drop down. So, is it actually the face we love? Soul we die for? Or both? Or may be, we just love the person because it is the decision of our heart to love that person. What actually makes that one person in the whole universe so special for someone? It is not qualities. Definitely not. It is neither personality nor status. He promised to be with her, but was never whenever she needed him. Still she loves him. She has searched for a friend in him but failed. There was this guy, who knew that the girl he has started loving is not the right girl for him. Even then, he wakes up daily to call her, cancels his office meetings just to bring her roses. So, why does he love her? Such kinda love which costs him so much. Doesn't he see the loss he is incurring? Both, the emotional and financial loss. We simply fall for a person irrespective of the personality and qualities that person has. An average looking girl is a princess for a boy. Some dumb guy is the most reliable person in that girl's life. It is never your decision who you fall for. It is your heart which decides who you will fall for.

You keep following your heart. You smile because she smiles. You choke your throat while crying because you don't want to ruin the day of the person you love. So, why does one struggle so much? Why does one smile when there is a storm in his heart? Why does one pretend to be normal when the broken pieces of his soul is scratching his every single nerve? Why does she pray for his wellness in-spite of knowing that he pays no attention towards her wellness? Are people stupid enough to not understand what love is doing to them? Are they blind enough to not observe the damages the person they love is doing to them? Or are they deaf enough to not listen to their spirit which is slowly dying....which is crying for its rescue? They are not. They feel what changes love has brought to them. They observe which scars have reshaped their personality. They listen to their every broken part. Still, they keep loving. Why? Because, that girl is the prettiest in the world or the guy is the most caring one? Really? Absolutely no. People love because their heart has chosen someone for them. It is your heart which is the route map of your love story. You smile even when your lips are the driest. You spend sleepless nights even when your eyes are heavy with tears. You hold on with empty hands. With their one call, you forget what you have gone through the whole night? Imagine some other person not responding to your repeated calls? Will you ever call that person? Even if you are the kindest person of the world, you will not. But, for that special person, you will. So, why do you do that? It is because, your heart says so. Your happiness makes way through his happiness. You keep that person above all your pleasures and comforts because your heart beats for that person.

Self control and self happiness have no say in the decisions that your heart makes for you when you fall in love. Everyone sees both the sides of love. Everyone changes in love. You are crying today for the person you love....you never know that person is crying too. I don't ask you to stop listening to your heart. Follow it. Love with all that you have. Love completely, laugh to the loudest, cry when you want, go through sleepless nights, suffer if it is required. Because, which shines brightest burns to the core. Whosoever reads it, don't fear love. Love is the most beautiful thing that can happen to you. Express it freely. But, make sure, if you love someone, don't let them get swallowed by loneliness. If you have ever done something which has weakened the threads of your love, knit them again. Go back to the girl who is setting up her bruised mascara because of the tears you have given her last night. Call that boy again who has called you 21 times. Kiss the forehead of the girl who clutched your shirt when you planned to leave. Tell the boy that he is the best thing that has happened to you. Express. Follow your heart, even if, it costs you little pain. Go out and express. Feel the real happiness. See him smiling with all his soul. Stare at her when she laughs till her cheeks ache. Fall in love and love with all that you have.