Our rituals Heritage

        Jamuna Das ji was sitting very sad in the park today, when his friend Shambhu Dayal ji comes there and puts his hands on his shoulders.  

         Suddenly, "Jamuna Das ji returns from the deep sleep of his thoughts".  

         What happened, Jamuna, why are you looking so sad today, 

        what happened, where are you lost today?

          Shambhu Dayal Ji said while sitting on the garden bench,  nothing, but, nothing Shambhu,

Nothing has happened to Shambhu!

             But Shambhu Dayal Ji understood. There is something that Jamuna Das ji does not want to tell them, but something has happened due to which he is distressed and distraught.

After the struggle of big thought, Jamuna Das Ji said, "my son and daughter-in-law don't want ! me and my wife Sharada to live in the same house with them" now.  

        Those people want both of us to move to "Sandipani old age home" a nearby old age ashram, and remain the same from now on, but Sharda does not want to leave her house, leave her family, and go anywhere.

         Sarada says that "she built this house by adding straw of affort and sometimes by being hungry and sometimes after heaving tiearedness she did more work and affort she transformed it into a happy householder with great expectations". I don't want to go eneywere live this house,why should we ?

        It took years to come to " every corner of the house smelling. When flowers are in bloom today, she wants to enjoy her fragrance and its fragrance". Wants to be immersed in that fragrance.She will enjoy and feel the fregarance of that, She will not build a nest anywhere except her home.  

         If any stubbornness happened to her, "she would abandon her life-like bird from her body". I am going through a very difficult period, Shambhu. 

           And my son and daughter-in-law say. You are old Will go anywhere. Where will he go with his two children, Avni and Adhiraj, and where do they stray and we cannot all live together in one house, so both of you are going to the old ashram and we will continue to come and take care of you. Shambhu, now" you tell me what should I do" ?

Shambhu Dayal ji said to Jamuna Das ji, bhabhi is speaking right. Why would she leave her house who does not want to be with them. If he leaves the house and both of you will live.

 somewhere else at this stage of your age, "your roots are unable to accept the soil, then the dead body will one day be dead dead sensation. The origin of yours and bhabhi is in the soil of the same house". So instead of destroying your family, try to convince the son and your daughter-in-law and if needed, I will also try.  

          But even after that, if both of them have objections, then they should make a new home for themselves and go there and live happily. "It is not a good thing to decorate your parents' house by emptying it."

And then even if the house is in the name of bhabhi, then you should give your love for leaving the house, Jamuna. is why I used to say. Instead of giving foreign rites to Jamuna's children and keeping them away from herself and teaching them abroad, they should have kept them between their heart and the fragrant scent of the soil of their country.  

You and the rites here were to explain the importance of the customs and loved ones here, as I,my son of Arnav (Shambhu Dayal Ji) and daughter of Lalima (Shambhu Dayal Ji).  

Today, so much is close to me and my wife Urmila that far from sending us, we do not take a single decision without our consent and discussion, nor can we even think of living without us.

The "vine of Jamuna rituals thrives in the soil of its seed and gives sweet fruits".

When you were sending your son to study abroad, I also explained to you.  

What is the need to teach him outside by taking a loan and ending all his bank savings. Is the only son. I will see you later this problem. Saying it was postponed, 

           But today the same situation has been presented to you which I had anticipated.  

                Today, neither you have money nor your old age support wants to be with you,Jamuna, your "bank of old age is also empty" today.

                Our old age bank is our relationship and our honor. But Jamuna, don't worry right now. Explain it to son and daughter-in-law. If you do not agree, ask them to make separate arrangements for them, do not leave your house under any circumstances.

              Both of you will get well. It is not a good thing to leave your wife alone and give him sorrow at such a big house.  

               Go Jamuna, go to your home. Bhabhi will be waiting for you. She will get upset after not getting you.

         But Jamuna does not fall into the love of his son again and take some wrong decision.  

Our honor is our saving. Our Relationship It is our bank of old age in which "our honor is always collected in the form of a fund and grows day by day. This is the true bank of our old age".This rite is its heritage. This is the heritage of our values ​​in the true sense.

                 But don't worry about anything right now. Stay in your house made with your hands with your respect and honor yourself and bhabhi as well.