Understanding and Hope!

"Understanding and Hope!"

Madness is all about resisting the urge to intellectualize and suppress primal emotions and conditions; hence this may resolve long-lived human dilemmas, especially when baser advantages are identified.

When you find someone as your better half and projecting the mildly delusional obsessions over as you want nothing else in life but them. 

Yes! I did the same with someone, and yes again, we all did the same with their ones. When we do this personally, we don’t really know if it’s a good thing but ultimately we want to show our extreme unfulfilled care and affection to them. 

When we are mad at someone we care for, more than love or cuddling, all we want is them, their time, words, smile, wishes, and every other thing. We don’t care much about what is happening on our own life, but always want them. 

 Unfortunately, it seems counter intuitive, People get into fights and hurt each other's feelings and they leave it like that. They leave being mad, they fall asleep not talking to them, they stop the texts without saying any word.

The truth is that shutting out your partner is only going to make him or her feel distant, punished, and unloved. The next time you engage in this behavior, ask yourself this question, “What is my intent and do I really want to hurt the feelings of the person I want to share my life with, and if so, will the outcome be a positive one? 

This would be so real and mostly vulnerable to happen when your partner is not feeling the same kind of affection that you feel towards them. Definitely they both would go to sleep with this uneasiness, thinking how more time needed to text back and fix it up? 

Or how do we know that the other person won’t do something horrible just because he or she thinks you will not be there for him or her anymore? When we don’t, what would be the solution?

Hope is a beautiful thing but as much as it hurts, the truth is, we never know how much time we have. We don’t have an assurance of one extra second. It’s important to acknowledge our anger and not suppress it. The key is to concentrate on talking, which is not the same thing as spewing our displeasure at the person we are blaming for that hurt.

This was the motto of writing to everyone, ‘anger always comes from hurt or drive to fear’. When someone causes you pain, you may have the impulse to respond like a child and try to hurt them back. Unfortunately, this usually ends up with both parties feeling worse and spending too much time in opposite ends of the sandbox.

Sadness is when we realize this; our time would be horrible enough to see no one to hold on and no one to pull out. As always facts that say, “Opportunities can get lost in the blink of an eye but regret lasts forever”. Let them know, ‘no matter what happens, you still care.’ By understanding that our goals are conceptual and no amount of physical force called anger can help us solve our problems but realizing the truth from them would do. This will be the driving agent for any relationship to carryon smoothly. 

Thanks for reading!  

-CarTee