Twisted Place

Why is it that the good are always misused for being good, while the bad continue to get away with it?

People continue being in toxic relationships and friendships because they fear they'll be friendless or won't ever find love. That's how fake people always have friends since most of them don't mind tolerating their fakeness.

While the good, they are always misused for being generous, kind, sweet, loving. Their efforts are mostly ignored. They are always taken for granted. Why don't people learn to acknowledge more often?

They might be a low maintenance friend, but that doesn't mean you don't even bother to check up on them from time and again. If they're always the one messaging you, why don't you try and do that this time. Why not try and give a little more.

It's unfair that the giver keeps giving, while the receiver has done nothing much on his/her part, yet keeps receiving.

It also hurts to invest your feelings with such receivers who don't see any of your generosity towards them, when they leave citing trivial reasons. They've got so used to receiving that they can't even step in to make things work.

When will such receivers ever learn their flaws? Probably never. They almost always turn out to be the kind who blame everyone else around them for their mistakes instead of looking within.

 

The least other people can do is to learn to grow a spine and stop supporting the bad.