The World of Fantasy and Reality

My friend asked me an amazingly deep question: "How can you manage to live in the real world full of difficulties and at the same time of the world of your imagination.?" Her questions are always thoughtful and wise, and I can't help but admire her ability to look deeply into things. In today's world, that's rare — many people ask questions without thinking, just throwing out the first thing that comes to mind. But that's not what this is about.

Her question made me stop and think. How do I really handle real life, full of challenges, while keeping my world of fantasies? The answer lies in the difficult art of balancing between reality and our inner world. Living in the real world requires strength, resilience, and the ability to adapt to constant challenges. But within us, there is always another world — a world of fantasy, which supports and inspires us.

The real world is full of uncertainty, sometimes cruelty, and injustice. It asks us to make decisions, take responsibility, and sometimes work hard on ourselves. But the world of fantasy becomes our refuge when reality gets too harsh. It's not an escape, but a source of restoration. We dive into our dreams not to avoid life but to gather strength to return to it with new ideas and energy.

This balance is like a dance between two worlds. Reality teaches us resilience and wisdom, while fantasy gives us creativity and inspiration. Both worlds are important and complement each other, helping us deal with life's challenges. Psychologically, it’s important to stay connected to both worlds. Fantasy allows us to imagine a better future, while reality teaches us to act here and now. Living in both worlds at once is an art that requires awareness, inner harmony, and the ability to see beauty even in the toughest moments of life.

I am incredibly grateful to fate that in my life there is a person I can confidently say is my person. At 38, I can finally say these words with full certainty — I have my person!

We are like two great minds, like Sherlock Holmes and Moriarty, but with one important difference: we don't compete. Instead, we find harmony, respecting and appreciating each other, creating a unique unity where each of us understands and supports the other.

P.S. Thank you all for your attention! I hope my thoughts didn’t tire you too much and even made you smile a little. Don’t forget to dream and stay true to yourself, and if life gets too tough — you can always find a corner of magic! As Carl Jung said: "Those who look outside dream; those who look inside awaken." May your dreams lead you to inner harmony and light!