Quarrel: Is it Important?

Let’s try to analyse our daily routine and you’ll see an argument or disagreement seems to be happening just as normally as talking to one another..

We all have different approaches to various aspects in life..

That’s how each human being is structured differently from one another or that’s how we all are unique in our own ways..

You see that’s totally fine to have different thought process, different techniques to tackle day to day challenges life throws at us..

The problem starts when these difference in opinion starts to take a form of disagreement or whenever you try to prove yourself right in the conversation about any particular topic..

It’s like your brain doesn’t obey to you listening to another person’s thought or it maybe proving a point of dominance to the other person in the process..

So, a light hearted conversation now takes place of a quarrel and I am afraid after the dust is settled, all you are left with is a feeling of sadness, anger and all those negative feelings towards the one you had disagreement with and we all have been through this feeling at least for once in life and we can all admit to the fact that it’s indeed very unpleasant to deal with, isn’t it?

So, let’s try to figure out why that conversation has taken up to the level of quarrel and how it can be avoided at the very first place..

The answer is very simple, ask yourself “Is it important?” before you argue..

Is it important for you to prove yourself to that extent that you end up quarrelling and letting your relationship get affected in the process..

I am sure you’ll definitely get an answer to it because only the foolish argues and the wiser listens and make a small adjustments to their plans from the inputs they’ve been getting from the other end!!