Phases of Life

                                      “Life is the journey with problems to solve and lessons to learn but most of all experience to enjoy…” Everyone has to pass through the different phases of life, the childhood phase, the adolescence phase, the mature phase and the complete responsible phase. Each one of us had enjoyed and gone through these phases, and the more we get into the next phase, we feel that the previous phase was way better than the current phase. Yes, this is how the human tendency is Let’s talk about each phase a bit or more. Let’s begin with the childhood phase, the phase when the child does not have any tension at all. I will say it “the free life” stage, the phase when the child does not have the maturity, the phase which spread lots of happiness to the people surrounding, in no hopes of getting anything and no turns to lose anything.

The phase of playing, roaming with full of joy and free heart. Next comes the phase we grew up a bit mature, the middle phase of our life or we can say the adolescence phase. The most critical phase, according to our guardiancies and parents, because this is the stage when our mind generally do not stay in one place. This is the phase we lose our main path track many a times, be it by getting attracted towards someone, be it by getting habituated with few bad habits, be it by learning few wrong things. Yes, that’s true, it is a bit critical phase, but nevertheless after we get out of this phase and go to the next phase that is a bit mature phase we realize our mistakes and get back into our track again.

The mature phase, when we have a bit more maturity than our adolescence phase, yes, many of us get attracted towards someone, get victim of bad habits in this stage as well, but in this phase we know how to balance our emotions and profession, hence it is mature stage. The stage gives us the purpose or our living, the stage of learning the how to deal with the problems, the stage of learning the people around us, the stage of facing the competitive world, the stage when we have the hunger of success, the stage of when we get some or few true friends with whom we can share each and every happiness and sorrows of our lives. The stage of learning the things which are the basic needs of our living.

After learning few or many things from our mature phase now comes the phase of applying those learned things in our life, and hence we are now in the responsible phase, where we are now almost prepared to take responsibility of ours and our near ones, more or likely we can say the phase in which we payback to our parents. Ok, so I think this is going much heavier to understand, let me make it a bit simple. The first phase, which I described as the childhood phase, is nothing but the phase when we were a small crawling & cuddling kid.

Next the adolescence phase, is the phase when we get into our pre-primary to primary or high school or I can say the school life. Next the mature phase where we set our target, is nothing but our college life and the last phase, where we get the responsibility, is nothing but when we get into jobs for making our and our near ones lives a bit or more comfortable, the phase of paying back to our parents.

Now when we sit back alone, and think of our each phases we feel that the childhood phase was the best phase, yes, we might had got many friends in our school & college life, there might be some of few special colleagues of yours in your professional life, but still there is another kind of peace in the childhood, where we are free of getting ditched, where there is no fear of getting last, where there is no hope of gains, just the peace and happiness. Anyways, nothing is in our hands; life has to pass, and we have to go according to its flow, so let’s enjoy the flow. Last but not the least I want to end up with one quote “Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived forwards.”--- by Soren Kierkegaard.