You, Me and Love

After about 5/6 years of marriage, one day I asked my husband, "Why is it that when I used to touch you in the early days of marriage, I felt goose bumps, but now it does not happen."

With a smile, he said, "Earlier we were two separate individuals, but with time we didn't remain two, in simple words now we are an extension of each other. Do you feel goose bumps when you touch yourself? No, you never. The same is the case now with both of us. Now we are one."

I was amazed by his interpretation. He was right.

It's all because of love, trust, and Compatibility between both of us. In such deep love, even thoughts become the same. Only with a clear vision, it is possible to form a true relationship.

I have seen many couples after some time started behaving in the same manner, even appearance-wise they resemble each other.

Married life is not a joke, it's a commitment. A commitment, which two people from different backgrounds make with each other.

A successful marriage not only depends on love and trust, but it needs more patience and forgiveness, and, care and concern. Always remember, he/she should feel care and concern not only in the words but in the efforts also.

No doubt, sex is one of the main motivating factors in the initial days, but gradually with age, it starts disappearing, many reasons are there, age factor, sickness, responsibilities, etc.

That time a great communication, and concern and some other factors needed to enhance the relationship.

It is true, children are a big reason to make this relationship beautiful and to keep together. But the couple like us with no kids, we make it even more beautiful by spending quality time together, which adds colours to this relationship, ultimately bring more life, charm, and fun. To avoid suffocation, we always give space to each other.

Let me say one thing more, we all are aware of the fact that men are mostly strong and intellectually centered, while women tend to be more emotional. But sometimes men can also become emotional and sensitive due to some known, unknown reasons, at that time it's the responsibility of the partner to support him both intellectually and emotionally. And sometimes she should also act as a strong pillar.

At last,

A relationship begins with love. Happy couples who spent years together has done a lot of compromises to stay together. They have accepted the flaws and shortcomings of each other. A great relationship is about two things, similarities, and differences.

"Love similarities, accept differences"