What Do YOU Want??!!

I have come across many people and many life time stories that usually change every single's life. Don't think single means that one who is not in a relationship...just kidding guys because now a days the patent for word SINGLE is given for who are not in relation but I actually meant for an individual who is or sometimes in dilemma to make a decision. As I have told you that I came across many people and life time stories, right, among them I would like to pick two, which would be similar and relate to them most often or might have faced or seen such situations at some point of time. Don't worry, I don't lag much.

One among is a confused love to choose between the one you like and the one others suggest which is also similar to the career that you like and others say that fits you great.

Firstly I would tell you about the love of your life with whom you can't live rest of your life. Here the love of your life - I don't really mean the one you are loving but the one who make you happier and give to trust to stand with you how hard it would be. That can be the person you love or someone your well-wishers suggest. But the main confusion is that should you choose the one you love or the someone your well-wishers suggest or compel you to choose. At this moment there can be many external forces who resist you to take your own decisions like some melodrama from family saying they would commit suicide, kill the person you love or kill you alone for the sake for caste, creed, religion or anything it might be or they would show you many extra features from the guy/gal they choose have many compared to the love you choose. At this stage no one will be so hard to lose their parents or closed ones due to which one becomes weak to take any sort of decision that may depress you mentally and physically as well or sometimes you may incline to the features your parents are offering and choose the one they ask to marry. Never ever take decisions in haste and go for a heated argument that would eventually lead to a great destruction. For this to make yourself clear from confusion stay calm, relaxed and composed, never take the warnings or the words spoken from your parents/closed ones, do meditate for few minutes or even hours and take deep breathe and concentrate on what you want in your life that would make you happier than ever. Never think of your neighbours, relatives, family, friends or the society since they are not gonna stay with you or think about you always, the one you would be with you for life long is none other than YOU alone and none of them have time to remember about you always. So clean your mind and always think 'WHAT DO YOU WANT' and think if I do this will it make me happy and remember that never ever regret for the decisions you make in your life and never blame others for your situations. Though they force you to do, don't do it if you don't want it. If you think you have lost your way completely build your new way so that you would be first to achieve it and if you feel all doors are closed for you then I won't ask you to wait until something opens but I ask you to cross-check whether really all of them are closed since there will always be a door which is in the darkest dark waiting for you to take your way, so stay calm and composed to look at your door. If really all of them are closed and none are present at the darkest dark then collapse the wall and construct your fancy fascinating door that welcomes or paves path for many. So what I am trying to say is never leave your decisions for others or make decisions based on the other external factors/others opinions, since the pain is experienced by YOU alone but the others can only see it but can't feel it. Take decision based on WHAT DO YOU WANT not based on the opinions/suggestions/warnings from others.

The same would be applicable for choosing career where their parents force them to take since they didn't get a chance to do, but kiddos remember one thing that if a choice between rank and children is given to parents then they would definitely choose children without any second thought, they love their children so much that they don't want their kids to suffer like them. But parents have to be matured enough to understand the interests of their children as well. Pressurizing them leads to depression but while choosing career kiddos think what do you want and can you be happy that what your parents suggest.

For anything and everything in life never blame others or regret on your decisions, whatever might be the result smile and accept it and note it down as a new lesson in your life book where you become better by improving your maturity by getting known 'what do you want' in life.

Thanks guys!! Have a happy reading. Hope this hasn't bored you much.