Understand Yourself3 mins 431 3 mins 431
Sometimes moving out is a better option for your soul, may be not right from other people's viewpoint. It doesn't mean that you can not face the situation rather it means your soul is top priority for you. Being Silent doesn't mean you are wrong it just means that you still respect their opinion & understanding them... Remember that you are not liable to give explanations to others let them think what they want to think & let them be happy. Arguing is not a solution. Majority is not an indicator of right & wrong. It takes a lot of courage to move against the flow. It is very easy to blame everyone but it is very difficult to understand them. Spirituality doesn't mean that you have to always say yes whatever the others say. If a Fauji is on a holiday & is enjoying his day off & at that place some terrorists come & start shooting randomly what should that Fauji do? Should he go & stand their in front of them & say that I am a Fauji & get killed or should inform his team so that they come with their weapons & fight the terrorists. Moving out from situation for sometime doesn't mean you are a culprit or expatriate. Instead of you explaining yourself to others, let them realize it themselves. Everyone judges you on what you speak not on what you do... just like tell everyone to save trees but you yourself cut the trees. Forgive but never forget the Lesson. Free yourself from them learn & then move. Just remember that everything happens for your better. If people are talking about you may be right or wrong but the point is that even in their busy schedule they manage to get some time to talk about you is itself a proof that they want you to be a better person from today. Respect them & their opinions.
Instead of doubting your strengths or testing their magnitude in any problem for a longer period come out of it before the chances of coming out of it become zero. As they say that speaking is an Art but Silence is a bigger art. Silence doesn't mean you are wrong it just means how strong you are. This simply means that you are not affected by outer world & instead of you speaking your character speaks for you. Focus on planting trees the one who actually wants to plant will come & start planting. The energy in convincing others is saved. Instead of time & energy waste, you get results. Always listen to your soul because only soul is experiencing your life your struggles, happiness etc. No one else even has any idea about what you are experiencing. They just need rumours to keep themselves entertained.