TOXIC RELATIONSHIP

Marriage is a beautiful time of life...

A girl always have a fantacy of living a happy, loving and respectful life after marrige...

But nothing goes same.....

There is always a villain in your life who is just there to ruin ur life.

When 2 people get married the 1 and most important relation between them is of respect. If respect is not there nothing goes smooth. 

But the villain don't want this. Here villains are parents of boy which they think they are not but become due to their expectations.

When a girl get married her parents leave her and says now u are big and can take ur decissions urself and laso with ur inlaws family but...... when a boy get married the parents get insecure that their son will leave them for the girl and will start disobeying us so we should keep a hold on him and her wife.

Now parents always instruct them to do thinks according to the parents. They try to get involved in all the discussions husband wife are doing and create an exception boundary in front of boy.

I dont think this is rite to get involved in a husband wife conflict coz in this case the new girl who came to ur house is always wrong. 

From the beginning parents dont allow kids to take their decisions themselves and ask son to involve them in everything u do which includes buying clothes, going somewhere or anything. When the couple go for shoppping it is compulsory for the boy to make a video call and show all the things. If girl says what is this and why to do, he starts argument that girl is not giving importance to his family. 

A girl who leave her house and come to ur place without and question and she saying no for a small thing shows that boy's parents are not impotant for her and all this what happend between the couple was informed by the boy to her mother, in return of which mother says -- beta kahin ye tujhe humse door na kar de, dhyaan rakhna. Humari impotance banaye rakhna, hum buddhon ka tu hi to ek sahara hai....

This ruins the newly made relationship if boy get influnced and in this story boy get influenced and started keeping his parents in front of everything and ask the girl to take permission or ask how to do from his parents before doing anything new.

This all suffocates the girl and just to lead a happy life she starts doing it but everything is not from 1 side it should be 2 sided work. Girl keep on taking permissions and got a revert of do what u feel like,who are we to interfere and on the other side mother ask his boy to do the thing in this way only.

Everything as 2 sides if in any work girl's thinking is not matching the boys family thinking and she decides to do it in her way the argument starts between the couple and that argument was taken by the boy to his mother where again they get involved.

At this place the role of a boy is to think and take a judgement what is write are wrong instead of going to his parents. In this case a girl can also go to her family but she dont do this just for the respect for her new family and values she get from he parents.

Here parents become villain. 

Impossing ur views and ur demands on somone is wrong, instead of that just inform them and let them free so that they come back to u for everything. If you u tie a string in there neck of your importance your son's marriage will not last long but if u will make him learn how to build a healthy relationship with his wife and respect her... ur son will be happy for lifelong.

Hope my lovely readers will find some sense in the short story and will give me their views on it...

Thanks you all for reading.