love or lust

How many of you think, shadi ho gai to we're certified to have sex? I hope most of us but do u think marriage is just SEX, nothing else? Marriage is the purest relationship which is between two people of different thinking and nature who try to get attached to each other ( in an arranged marriage) or get attached to each other ( in a love marriage) just because of nature or thinking. It is the purest form of love, care, and affection towards your partner in which SEX automatically happens. Why do men think we are married so u have to make it with me or I will go somewhere else to satisfy my need? What a bullshit thinking it is. It means you are not able to get that love from your partner, which means u have to think about it and make it happen but only with love not with the pressure. At the end, I would like to ask you a question what do u think, what is Marriage all about? 

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