Straight forward V/SRude

It happened to me on 27 Jan 2022. I have a friend, who is a doctor. Although, I consider him only a known or acquaintance, but not a friend until he called me buddy.

He generally used to message me:

Good morning buddy, Good night buddy etc.

Friends, if you use to call somebody by a proper relation, it's usual that we will react or respond to that person in similar way as he or she is doing. As every action has equal and opposite reaction according to "Newton's Third Law of Motion."

Similarly, he used to message me good night at 12 O'clock or 1 O'clock sometimes, but I used to react normally because I think friends are very clear in front of a friend. So, there is no chance that we should think wrong about the other until that person do or say something wrong to us. 

I consider everyone has its own place in life. Let's come to the main point.

I asked him an question about 'Pulse oximeter' ( an medical instrument). I am also a medical student and preparing for competitive examination after BSc. And the time was about 10:54 pm, when I asked him. I don't know what he thought or why he did so that he replied me so rudely, "Let me rest. This is not a time of questioning me." As soon as I read this message, I immediately replied him, "Sorry, extremely." 

With this, I felt so guilty at that time, not because he replied me like this, but because I allowed him to be a part of my little friend circle. Such persons doesn't deserves any respect and friendship. Although he is in a respected profession where a person heals other, but he, really don't have talking sense, I guess. It was just like a big hit on my ego and self respect. Emotions were going up and down, but somehow I managed. 

I am also very sensitive natured person but besides this I know how to take a stand for me whenever required. 

I start analysing the situation. I thought, if he didn't want to reply at that point of time, then he can say it politely. But no. It was filled with rudeness and anger. What was he saying me, shows his manners and bringing up. And also I am not sharing it here just because I need anybody's sympathy. I just wanna say everybody, please think before you speak. Your one talk can spoil your relation with your friends and family and relatives etc.

I also think about whether he was straight forward or rude. 

Straight forward nature never means that we should throw up our anger on some other person or we should talk rudely to others. Straight forward means we should express our thoughts clearly and truthfully, but in a polite manner and considering others respect also. No body is too interested in talking to some particular person. If you don't like anybody, you simply say it politely.

That's all what I want to say.

Please respect everybody. 

And immediately, cut out these kinds of people from your life, as I did. And keep smiling always.

Make yourself so strong that no other person can hurt you too deeply. If some family member or relative show this behaviour, then you can simply tell them to behave in a sensitive manner and politely.

May God bless you all.