Change

Each day is new. Each day is a beginning. Each day is a fight. Each day brings a change. Hence, each day is a vicious cycle, where we all are trapped and meant to believe that this shall too pass. A trap, where we are expected to function in a certain manner.

Everyone is in a constant race, to outstand their ownselves. A race, where each is fighting with itself, so that it could be "the good one" in the "good books" of another.

We have started to pretend, who we are not and not even want to become like. But, in order to survive this outrageous world, where there is a constant refusal to humility and incoruptablity, we are compelled to wear a mask and pretend like noone is watching. 

This has become the sole reason behind the incompatibility amongst relationships, lack of truthfulness and honesty amongst people.

Not only this, but we have become totally unknown to our own, real, self. It's like, we have completely forgotten, who we were and who we are now. 

At some point, we are an egoist. On the other, we are an egotist. Then at some point, we act like an altruist and at another, we become a misanthrope. This reflects, how just within a blink of an eye, we can change and pretend to be someone, who we are not. But, this doesn't stop us to expect from others. Irrespective of the manner, in which we treat others, we expect them to be the best of themselves with us. We have completely forgotten, that to be loved, one needs to love. 

Furthermore, with each passing day, we have become so insecure within our own shape and mind, that it has captured us inside a shell. We have become more reliant on others and their opinions. The recurring need of reassurance, has affected our way of thinking to quite an extent. This has lead us to losing our own liberty and self-esteem. 

Hence, it has become a dire need, that we become our trueselves and quit the element of fakeness that has forced us to pretend and function in a way, which we are not. One should be confident of its opinions and stop being insecure about their lives. We should accept that one cannot be right at all times. As much as one should not be afraid to make mistakes, in the same way, one should not be afraid to accept them. If you will not believe and treat yourself the way you others to do, no one would do it for you. Therefore, self-belief and being true to your ownself, by being the way you are, is a great lesson that we must learn.