Bed Time Quarrels

Sometimes I wonder! Is it the person who hurts the other one at fault for all of his/her pain or is it that the person who let that other person hurt him/her at fault? The person who has hurt the person doesn't realise or know the consequences of the things he/she has done? or is it the other person's recklessness to let them hurt you a point of the question? One never understands the things which are worth crying for? 

Maybe then I wonder is anything in life worth crying over? Or it is just the way life works, it pushes you to the ground thinking that you'll get back up and face the situations rather than crying over the things. Maybe we're all cowards looking for the answers from others' mouths rather than from within. We all know all this but the thing is we never could do anything about it, it's our heart that we cannot have any control over, be it love or hate we cannot actually control that....right? All we can do is hope that the decision we're considering! We don't end up regretting it. Maybe the answer is in front of our eyes, we just ignore to see it because we're too coward to embrace reality and try to live in the illusionist world.