What Is True Love

Peoples expectation for love

When it comes to love, different people talk about different things. Some people say love is to take care, be with him, fulfill all the wants and etc etc. Actually, I also don't know the exact definition of love. In today's world, people had defined love as doing what he/she likes, what he/she wants, what he/she is dreams etc. etc. But if you are doing so much to impress his/her and doing what he/she likes. Is it true love? You are busy doing what he/she likes to be done, your inner world is not supposed to do the things which you are doing for him/her. He/She is not asking to do what you love to do. You have to go through just because he/she likes it to be done. Is it a true love? 

 What If you fail 

What if you somewhere failed to do what he/she likes, what if he/she leaves you just because you are unable to fulfill his/her dreams, his/her likes. You are always afraid of losing his/her and doing things which you even don't love to do but you are doing it so that he/she should stay with you. Is it true love? Where your inner world is lost and you are fully engaged and ruled by someone. Is this not a life of a Slave. It is better to be alone than to have such a kind of relationship. 

 The true love

Have you ever seen any mother saying to his child that I like this, do this for me otherwise I will leave you etc etc. A mother loves his child no matter how he looks, what he do, how bad her child is. She always loves her child. No matter what bad habits her child has, she will always love him. The love for her child will never end. Every mother wants to give her child best food, clothes and shelter and always did beyond the expectation for her child. If her child becomes world's biggest enemy, then also the love for her child will never end. That's true love.

What is true love? 

True love is to love someone unconditionally without having any expectations from him/her. Love him/her like a mother, Care him/her like a father. I know it is not possible to do like mother and father but at least if you try you can do 1% and by practicing this you will achieve infinite love for him/her. Never ever exploit anyone to fulfill your demands. I have seen people blackmailing others to fulfill their hunger, he/she believed in you and shared everything with you and now when due to some personal or professional issue he/she has to leave you then you are blackmailing him/her and forcing to do what you want. Please I request to you all never do this. 

Never merge attraction in love. These are two different things. One is north the other is south. If you are attracted to someone then I am not saying it's bad. It's a natural phenomenon that almost everyone in his/her life gets attracted and it is due to the release of oxytocin hormone in our body at this age group. If you are attracted to someone then don't think what he/she will say just go and tell. If he/she is also interested in this then go and enjoy your life, it's great to do so and if he/she is not interested then leave it, don't think much about it. As per the study of psychology, a person gets attracted at least one person everyday if he/she is in public at this age group of 18-24. 

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