Thread With My Coach,A Spiritual Adviser.

Thank you for picking this fight. I appreciate all of the insight and new perspective that it aroused. I see what you are doing and appreciate it. There is a higher level of passion in this thread than others... and you can tell you jumpstarted some emotionally intelligent content here. I try to be careful of being to be confident in my conviction and in saying everything is either black or white. I want to maintain a leveled head and emotions which can be a struggle for me many days. I try to consider all sides and just take a message from whatever I read that I can then apply to my life in some sort of positive way. I have to let go of caring whether I am right or wrong and just go with the flow. I don't want a pile up or dead end of bad emotions because I invested too much in something of minor significance. I just need to take something good from things quickly and keep my energy and mind moving foward. If I don't let my head get tripped up on negativity, arguing, or needing to be right all the time I free myself up to do things that cater to my higher perspective and purpose. I'm not saying this in regards to anyone in this thread but rather this is what I was inspired to realize when I read this. Diagnosed with bipolar whether you would consider that real or not... I can't let things trip me up emotionally or they will inhibit me from being productive.I'm excited about this group because you have more fire than me... well you express it more. Maybe we have the same amount... People with fire are intimidating. I need to learn how to use that to my advantage and not just when I'm fighting with my lover. Lol! I will say this, I don't like conflict.. It's because I need to learn to assert myself better and hold my head higher. I am shy and timid. I need to learn to be strong and confident. I feel I can learn to be fierce if I just make it be an uplifting experience dealing with people and not a deflating. I also need to be patient enough with myself to practice being assertive and not give up just because it feels different or uncomfortable. I felt nervous to comment on this post. I guess some would call it social anxiety.. but you could also chalk it up to lack of experience. I'd love to learn confidence techniques. So maybe I will focus 30 minutes a day on that. That is another thing I took from this.I just more meant some people viewing your excitement about moving forward seems to be confused with agression causing or prompting people to be a bit defensive. Then I kind of got to observe the different way people interpreted your message. Different people give it a different meaning. It's interesting to see all of the different interpretations of just one message and what people came up with and took from it all.