Tears

If you cry people think that you are weak, you are coward. They think you are not capable of accepting failures but they don't try to realize what you are actually going through. Tears do not always represent weakness or cowardness. It's not that if you are crying you are not accepting your failure or you are weak to stand up again...... Sometimes tears are because u have no one to share your pain, your situation with. You have no one to share your further plans with. You find no one who truly wants you to pursue what you really want. Tears flow bcz the only person whose support you wished for, who matters for you the most is not there with you. Tears come out when you passionately yearn for something and you know you can do it but someone tries to make you realize that you are doing the wrong thing. Tears flow out when you try to make the most important person happy by every possible means but nothing works and the worst part is you don't know what's wrong, where to change. 

After all this, no happiness makes you happy, you who used to be happy in small things don't find happiness even in your biggest feat. No exam makes you so scared and no result makes you so upset that the fear of looking at the unhappy face of the person you prioritized, does.

People think you are crying because you need help......NOOOOOOO.......NOOOOOO. it's just that you want to throw your situation, your feelings out that are bothering you continuously, that's not letting you move ahead. You want to get rid of them. But then you realize that it takes a lot of strength to listen to one's pain without judging him, to support him unconditionally. Huh..it's not everyone's cup of tea......and so you retort to crying In silence.

When heart is full of unexpressed emotions and feelings, they flow out in the form of tears. And it is inevitable.....you can't stop it because there's no more space left in your heart to hold it........ it will come out........... and your heart will feel light because now there's place for new pain or perhaps joy....... now you are light and ready for further struggles, failures, acceptance and perhaps joy and success, too. You are ready again to fight back which you wouldn't be with that heavy heart. 

So, it's high time now that people need to accept that tears always do not symbolize weakness...... it's completely ok if you cry, if you want to cry because that makes you light, that makes you feel better..... that makes you ready to come back. .......and all this by your own. You are broken and to join things back their surface needs to be cleaned first.

 So who can be stronger than you, who put all efforts alone, went through everything alone, who stood up again without anybody's support and is ready to fight back again. .... without anyone's support. .....TEARS ARE GOOD because they help in washing away all odds and create place for your future endeavors.......and the best part is WITHOUT NEEDING ANYONE.......