Talking hours doesn't means loving forever

Love to talk for hours doesn’t mean loving forever.

This particularly happens with introverted people. When someone mixes too much with them, they suddenly imagine that person to be the best person of their life 💞. They become fully emotionally dependent. And when that person feels bored and leaves them midway, the introvert feels exhausted and broken.

It’s not just about talking. In every case, when some temporary activity matches with someone—or when we enjoy someone’s company for a short time—we sometimes decide too quickly that we want to live forever together. We make emotional promises without thinking, like social media reels—short, exciting, but temporary.

When life faces difficulties and failures, either we leave our so-called “lovely” person in that situation, or we confuse them by saying, “I have no interest in you now; we can just be friends.” If the other person tries to hold on, we simply ignore them, saying, “I never loved you—it was just a temporary feeling.”

Even animals seem to have stronger bonds these days than some humans.

And let me tell you a hard truth—sometimes even our parents’ love isn’t purely emotional. It’s also tied to a long-term vision: “My child will one day bring glory to the family, preserve our integrity, and uphold our culture.”

Simply put, if two people don’t share a common long-term vision, a relationship can’t survive on just emotions and temporary fun.

I’ll share with you later what I mean by a common vision goal—one that I’ve used many times.