Swabhimaani samaaj

Y kahaani nahi y meri chamaa prarthna bhi hai us insaan se jo mere behaad kareeb or sadaa  ke liye dilo mai apni chaap chorne waali meri premika ki kahaani hai. (Nandini)

Is  duniya mai kise ...kis se kab milna tay hai, koi nahi jaanta. kiske jeevan mai kya hone waala hai sab uski naseeb tay karti hai or bhagwaan ka aadesh jab tak na ho...!!

Aisi hai meri khaani hai. jisme meri premika ka aana likha tha mere jeevan mai. y kahaani suru us roj hoti hai jab mai apni bhabhi ke ghar muzaffarpur madhushrawani puja mai jaane ke liye tayar ho raha tha, us waqt ek msg aati hai whataap mai ki wo ladki jiski aapne dress ki taarif kiya tha meri behen ki vidaai ke samay mai wo bhi aa rahi hai. y sun kar  mere chehre ki muskaan tej ho gayi thi , kyu ki use maine apni bhabhi ke chhath se dekha tha black color ki saari mai or chehre pe muskuraan liye hue or wo niche se meri nazroon se chipte hue. hann uss waqt hi mujhe wo pasand aa  gayi thi.

Mai  khushi khusi apni bhabhi ke ghar jaane ko tayar hone laga y soch kar ki wo bhi aa rahi hai, isiliye mai confirm hone ke liye use instagram pe follow kiya or messge karke pucha ki tum bhi aa rahi ho, to usne pehle kaha ki mera koi thk nahi hai ..aa bhi sakti hu ya nahi bhi. mujhe thori si udaasi hui magar ummeed liye mai nikal gaya apni bhabhi ke ghar yahi ummed se ki milna hoga usse to wo milegi hi. 

phr kya mai apni bhabhi ke ghar pahucha subh mai or puraane waale ghar mai gaya paani peene, paani jab pee raha tha to use darwaaze ki peeche dekha wo wahi muskaan liye hue ,mujhe dekh rahi hai. sach batao to mujhe khushi ka thikaana nahi raha..mai bahot khush tha ki finally wo ayi. jise dekhte hi meri dilo ki dhadkaan tez ho jaati hai har baar. meri bhabhi ki maa ne mujhe uska introduction karwaaya ki y meri hi dur ki beti hai ...shaadi karlo..paise waise nahi milenge. y baatein sun kar maano mera chehra khushi ki maare laal ho gaya or wo muskura kar andar room mai chali gayi.

Mai adhik ise vistaar nahi karna chahunga kyu ki mai jitni uski taarif karunga wo mere liye kam hi hogi. jis tarah wo meri sahyata ki bhabhi ke ghar mai ..uska mai sadeb riini hi rahunga.  3 waqt ka  khaane se lekar meri raat tak ki sone ka inteezam, mera kapde dhona wahi kiya karti thi. humne us waqt saath saath bahot saari cheezzien kiya jaisi movie dekhna, subh 5 baje uth kar mandir jaana, market se samaan  laana, subh uth kar phool todna  jaisi cheezien kiya karte the. meri uski prati or akarsan badh gaya or maine use apni dil ki baatein keh diya. wo muskuraai or bina kuch kahe chali gayi , 

Dheere dheere humari nazdikiyaa badhti gayi magar ab kisi ke aakhon mai dono  khatakne lage. usne hume apne baare mai sabkuch bataaya, apni family ke baare mai bhi bataya. maine use  kareeb se jaana, jab usne apni isthithi khul kar bataayi. tabhi mann me mujhe vishwaas ho gaya mujhe ki y  insaan sahi hai or  bass mere liye perfect hai.  {nandu tum perfect ho sach mai,thori chachal bhi ho magar acchi ho yaar. sayad mai hi samjh nahi paaya tumhe acche se..!! "maaf kar dena"}

7 din kaise gujar gaye maano pata hi nahi chala, jaane se pehle hum dono ne ek dusre ko gale lagaaya, sach kahu to  wo pal maano dono ke liye tham sa gaya tha. uski mann ki udaassiyan saaf saaf dikh rahi thi, dono ne bhare mann se promise kiya ki jald hi dono ek dusre ke saath honge ab or abki baar humesa ke liye honge. jaane ke waqt maine sabhi ke saamne us se haath milaaya or use alvida keh station ki or chal diya.

{nandu .. abhi bhi wo drishya ko yaad kar aankhein bhar aayi hai}

[nandu tumne  ek saal bahot se logo ki baatein suni hai yaar mere liye,  sabhi se ladi bhi ho, phr kyu antim samay mai haar gayi. bina sach bataya hue kyu dur chali gayi..?]

 Mai apne ghar ko pahucha or mai bahot hi khush tha, mujhse maa papa ne pucha kya sab hua waha pe, to maine bass ek hi insaan ki taarif ki jisne mera har humesa khyaal rakha tha or wo tum thi nandini. maine bahot si baatein bataayi ki kaise nandu ne mera 24 ghante khyaal rakha. itni uteezana se maine ghar waalo ko bataya ki papa ko laga ki mujhe wo ladki pasand hai.

phr wo bhi gaye mere aane ke 2 din baad. unke jaane se pehle nandu ne mujhse pucha tha ki kaise mai aapke papa ko pasand aa sakti hu, mujhe saari cheezein batao. y baatein sun kar maine usse kaha tha ki bass ek acchi si suit pehne rehna, or usne waise hi kiya. us subha usne laal rang ki suit pehne hui tasveer bheji, uski khubsurti ka koi varnan nahi kar sakta mai abhi. 2 dino baad papa laute ,unhone ghar aakar bataya ki kaise wo ladki jiska naam nandu hai usne unki seva ki, wo chahe khaana dene mai ya nahaane ke liye saara samaan ka intezaam karne mai.

Nandu, papa ne bhi taarif hi kiya tha tumhara or maine y baat tumhe batayi thi usi waqt. wo khush the, unhone santosh chacha se tumhare baare mai pata bhi kiya tha, or ghar aakar bataye the tumhare baare mai,(koi kami nahi thi tum me sachi)

(mai aap sabhi ko batanaana chahunnga ki wo chanchal jarur hai magar mann ki saaf hai, or sayad uski khubsurti or mera uske kareeb jaana hi humare apne ko pasand nahi aa rhi thi.)

Mere aane ke baad wo waha pe 10 dino tak thi or aksar wo hume ghar waale ke phone se hi msg kiya karti thi, kyu ki uske paas apna phone nahi hua karta tha. or inhi sab beech hum dono ke saari whataap chat  muzaffarpur ke logo ne leak karna  suru kiya or dekhte hi dekhte sabhi ko waha par pata chal gayi.

mera durbhagya y hai ki  jis insaan ne kaha tha ki y ladki se shaadi kar lo dahej wagera nahi milega, wahi insaan itna aag babula hui hum dono ke rishto ko lekar, ki wo aag mere ghar mai lagte hue , [aaj humari riste ko bhi khatm si kar gayi.]

jab us jagah par sabhi ko pata chal gayi thi to maine apne ghar waale ko bhi bataana sahi samjha apne rishto ko lekar, kyu ki mere bhaiya ki jinki nayi nayi shaadi hui thi, unhe bhi dhamkaaya jaa raha tha ki agar wo dono (mai or nandini) ek hue to saara rishta aapse hum khtam kar lenge. aap soch sakte ho ki kadr nafraat ulogo ne thaan li thi ( yaha unlogo ka mtlb mere bhaiya ke sasuraal waale).

{nafrat yaha isiliye hui kyuki, unhone apni beti ki shaadi bahot hi dhoom dhaam se kari thi, or mai jisse pasand karta tha wo financially thori weak ghar se aati thi, Mera or nandini ka milna unke swabhimaan par bahot hi chot lagane waali baat thi, ki kaise wo itne acche ghar mai chali jayegi. unki izzat mitti mai mil jaati gao waalo ke saamne. } 

Maine usi roj papa ko bataya jis roj bhaiya ko dhamki mili. maine papa or maa ke saamne kaha ki mujhe nandu pasand hai bahot, papa ne bhi kaha ki ladki acchi hai, to jis din hona hoga us samay baat ho jayegi. filhaal apne kaam pe dhyaan do. bhaiya ne bhi papa ko kaha hi unke sasural waale y saari baatein kahi hai. jise sun kar papa ko aascharya hua ki kaise y mere bete ko aisi aatei keh sakte hai. To unhone call lagaya or pucha ki kyu aapne aisa kaha , or agar ladka ladki ek dusre ko pasand karte hi hai to aapko koi dikkat nahi honi chahiye, kyuki wo aapki beti nahi hai, aapko aisa mere bete ko nahi kehna chahiye.

tabhi tez awaaz mai udhar se awaaz ayi dhamki bhare lehjo mai, "hum hone nahi denge aapke bete ka shaadi us ladki se dekhte hai kon hone deta hai . hum nahi hoone denge. meri beti ke ghar ,wo ladki nahi jaayegi."

us waqt meri puri family yahi soch mai the ki kis uneducated or mannerless ke ghar apne bete ki shaadi kar diye hai. kyu ki unlogo ne papa se bhi behas kiye or maa se bhi. 

 Aag lag chuki thi, magar mere ghar nahi , muzaffarpur walo ke ghar. unlogo ka meri family se behas karne ke baad mann nahi bhara to unhone ladki ke ( chacha, bua, papa, or dada ji ) sabhi se kehna y suru kiya ki meri beti ke sasuraal waale sahi nahi hai , ladka bura hai, saare nashe karta hai or na jaane meri family ke baare mai ulte seedhe bahot bole.

 ek baat hume yaha aap sabhi ko bataani hai ki ek raat pehle hum or nandini dono jaan chuke the ki y log shaant nahi baithne waale hai humdono ke rishto ko agar aage lekar jaana hai to in logo ki baaton ko ansuna karna hoga or hum dono ne aisa hi kiya, dono ne kisi ki baaton ka react nahi kiya or dono ne apne family ko keh diya ki hum dono ekdusre ko pasand karte hai.

samay beeta 2,4,6,8 mahine aise hi beet-te gaye humdono ne baat karna band nahi kiya or na hi kisi se muh lagaana wajib samjha, 

magar jo log aag ki jawaala mai jal rahe the, wo log apna kaam karna band nahi kiya. nandini or mere baare mai pure gao mai humari badnaami karni suru kar di. unhe itna bhi samjh nahi tha ki , wo ladki bhi inhi ki family ki hai. wo bhi kisi ki beti hi hai. bass apne ghamand or jhuthe swabhimaan mai chur uski badnaami karte gaye.

mai adhik vistaar mai nahi jaunga kyuki jitni bhi baatein unlogo ne kahi wo bataane yogya nahi hai. kyuki keechad mai pathar maaroge to khud ko hi padegi.

aap sabhi ko bata du ki is  ek saal ke dauraan nandini par bahot se lalchaan lagaaye gaye, wo apni family se bhi kai baar maar khaai , bass meri wajah se. Magar phr bhi usne sabhi se kaha ki wo mujhe pasand karti hai or shaadi bhi mujh se hi karegi.   

unlogo ne ab uspe ek or bada aarop lagaya .....iss baar jaise brahmastra chora ho.

ek sabse bada laalchan us pe ye bhi lagaaya gaya ki "wo muzaffarpur jaakr asudh ho gayi hai".   y baatein use or uski family par bahot bada laalchan tha. usne hume bataya tha.

15 september 2025 ka din , jis din se nandu ne  humse alag hone ke liye apni bimaari ka bahaana banana suru kiya. ho skta hai kisi ka dawaab ho jisse ki mai use chor du. or 10 dino tak aise hi chalte chalte sab khatam ho gayi humare or uske beech ka pyaar.

hann swabhimaani samaaj ki jeet hui or hum haar gaye. Hum nahi.....bass mai haara. wo or samaj dono jeet gaye. saath bhi kitna deti. ladte ladte thak gayi hogi sayad.

nandu mujhe pata hai tum theek ho, or y mere liye sach mai acchi baat hai ki tum theek ho, aise hi theek raho. Mai khud se bhi haar gaya hu ab.

Aap jitne logo y padh rahe hai , wo chahe meri family ho ya uski.  Nandu bilkul saaf hai or pavitra , phr bhi agar koi shanka ho to aap behichak test karwa  sakte hai. wo sayad ab thak gayi aap sabhi se ladte hue, apne pyaar ko paate paate.

 

Nandu tumse bhi maafi sach  mai, mujhe nahi pata ki kaha mujhse galti hui ...kya hui. Bass jaate jaate itna to bata diya hota ki kyu y bemaari ka bahaana banana pada, ya kahi or rishta fix ho gaya hai. kuch to bata do 2 min hi samay nikal kar. Mai pareshaan hu. tumne mujhe har jagah se block kar rakha hai. kuch to bata deti......!!

- Madhav

04-11-2025