Sometimes In Life

Sometimes selfishness and stupidity are quite good things if that is for good reason.

For your existence, for your well-being, it's OK to the selfish.

Never ever question your existence, your birth has its own meaning, your existence carries its own importance. Even fluttering of butterfly wings makes a huge difference/change. Then, your existence, you being in this world and you not existing in the world make a huge impact in-universe. The impact may not be visible properly or let's say people can't actually observe it but you have to trust the thing that micro impacts is the cause of huge/major ones.

Learn to be proud of yourself; proud of your good works. It builds confidence in you and encourages you to move forward.Never ever doubt yourself to do good work. It's true that you have to think a lot before doing any work like how to accomplish, what process should I apply to make it efficient and effective, but once you make a decision even if it is a random decision you can go for it because once you hesitate it will become lifelong hesitation.

If someone criticizes your work or compliment you, you can take it in your own perspective. You better ignore the worst criticism and worst compliment but if the criticism and compliment turns out to be good one you can accept it as a suggestion. It's up to you to acquire anything around you either it is a sceniaro or anything. It's just up to you.

You don't have to clarify someone about your works if it is not that necessary because if a person is really not willing to analyse your points then even if you try to make it clear then plain, pure water. They will understand your all points in the way that they want. So, it is not always necessary to clarify you, sometime it's OK to skip this thing in life.

You don't always have to listen to others, you don't have to say yes, ok, of course to the things/favor other people ask for. It's all right to say no, I can't, never, some often. Being nice, kind sometimes harms you when being evil can show you the right way to be on. It's definitely not that evil is right and kindness is wrong but sometimes negative impacts are more influential than positive ones. 

While being munificent to each and every person we somehow or failing to be affectionate to our loved ones, to the one who we are nearest and dearest to us. This will really break you when you finally realize it and it's obviously late to make it good and even to bring it in its previous state. 

So, it's OK to reject someone's asked favour, reject someone's question. 

It's for you that you have to be nice, kind, you have to help.

Yes, maybe helping others bring peace in mind and heart but if you aren't being able to help you in any sense or way, your helping acts may become a meaningless outcome.

 Helping you, trusting you, complimenting you, making you strong, forward enough to be you, yourself, to enjoy your day, work, to be full of yourself (in a good way), might be your biggest, wealthiest achievement that you get in this existence.

It's not that you must be bad and also not that you must be good always. It's your work, acts, sequences. So, according to you, your mindset, 

you can be nice or evil. 

         As both parts exist inside us.

                                   Isn't it?