Reviewed and nourished –By-Kumar Bahukhandi

The reputation of another person is damaged by means of false and injurious communication. The disputed words themselves might not be slanderous but may hold a hidden meaning damaging the reputation of others. It is very easy to belittle people, especially if we harbour the grudge against them. I am sure on a self-examination spree, we wouldn’t dare to accept the fact that by doing so we are availing of the devilish strain within us . .In such situations, the escape route taken mostly are –oh! We didn’t intend taking revenge or anything akin to that..Well there is another beautiful take on such life situations that is opted only by a few. Those who have wronged us, find themselves in odd situations, when they have to face us .Instead of fleecing them, it would be wise to direct our thoughts and energies towards rejecting them out from those un-savoury moments. Surely, it will turn out to be an energy efficient exercise for our own well being to give them wings to fly out for such odd situations.

 

One of the most incredible goals in international football is scored through a free kick by the Brazilin players Roberto Carlos when the ball curved 30 feet and landed inside the goalpost, leaving the goalkeeper stunned. Scientists have now applied laws of physics confirming the friction exerted on a ball by its surrounding atmosphere slows it down for the spin thereby allowing the last moment change in direction. Taking a cue from this our words revealing our earnest feelings could enable those who wrong us to change their direction of thought.

 

Despite our best efforts, there is no guarantee that we will stumble upon victory every time. .So perseverance and patience are the keys. Our perspective, sensitivity and an introspective nature are the only technicalities involved. The climb is hard by the returns will be satisfying.

 

Many of the obstacles and road blocks that we face while dealing with relationship are mostly set up by us .We can blame it on the images that we carry in our minds and our attitude towards different life situations. When we have to over come them, it is best to take it up as a challenge and decide to be happy anyway. Why should we let the present and the future remain clouded because of spoiled past?

I have lost my mother about six month back that caused me many stresses thus I was with a heavy heart that I walked into my parents room frequently and held the belief that you can blow life into every defused relationship if we earnestly try. All I had to do was maintain the loving strain without spicing it up with words that spew venom. .The result is I cherish their togetherness even to this day.

 

It is true that human love has to be nourished, reviewed and renewed .It would be a colossal waste of time to expect others in and around you to change .The easiest and wisest thing to do would be to bring about the desired change within us …and this has to be a never ending process. The individuals who are passionate about this have cherished the society by sheer ingenuity.