Relationships and Citizenship

When my wife Shakuntala passed away in a road accident, life became completely boring. Moreover, both my children Manish and Kirti were in their childhood. He does not show this pain at all in front of them, but when he was lonely, tears used to fill his eyes. This process continued for some days. Slowly, Dripsen also started entering life, thoughts of suicide used to come. Within a few days, depression completely overpowered me. Earlier, this condition was confined to the house, used to mingle with people outside, then it used to get rid of it for some time, but as soon as you step into the house, its rampage started. Gradually it interfered with my office work as well and forced me to lose a lot. For its diagnosis, visits were made to all the famous doctors of the city, but there was no significant improvement. My biggest mistake was that I had not discussed about it but my special friend Pyarelal ji had realized the situation after all. On his repeated questioning, I finally told the truth. After this, Pyarelal ji helped me a lot and used to say the same thing every day that accept what has happened and pay attention to the children, because it should not happen that the future of the children is ruined due to this sorrow, they will not develop bad habits. Do not fall into I followed Pyarelal ji's advice and keeping a stone on my heart, stopped the memories of Shankuntala from entering the present situation and started paying attention to Manish and Kirti.

After a long time, the mind felt good as son Manish had performed very well in the class 10th examination results. Took the company of Pyarelal ji to discuss about Manish's future and according to him, Manish was admitted to a prestigious coaching institute in Kota for the preparation of entrance examination for admission in engineering college. Admission was done, there was an atmosphere of happiness everywhere, but again the same worry arose in my mind because there was going to be a distance from my son Manish, but finally I explained to my mind. Let's go to Manish's quota but now only me and my daughter Keerti were in the house. Kirti's 10th board exams were going to be held this time so when she used to get busy with studies, the house used to fill me with despair. When Keerti's exam result was declared, she also performed like Manish but still my mind was disappointed because first I lost my wife, had to bear separation from Manish and now I will have to part with Keerti too. He accepted this situation due to compulsion. This time Pyarelal ji took care of me before my mental condition deteriorated.Had to live alone in this house of a well-to-do family. From time to time, Pyarelal ji used to come to console, meeting him, the mind used to get rid of this sorrow for some time. Time progressed somewhat further with these conditions.

The time had come that daughter Kirti had to get married. This used to bring less happiness and more pain, but what to do, after all a girl is a stranger's wealth. That's why Kirti had to get married keeping her mind under control. After bidding farewell to Keerti, my mind was again about to jump into the same well from which Pyarelal ji always used to take me out holding my hand. This time also he reiterated the situation and prepared me to face the situation again. He said, "It doesn't matter if Keerti is gone, when Manish's son gets married, a gentle woman like Keerti will come to the house and the house will be happy again." The nature was not the same now, although respect and love towards me was the same, there was no decline in it, but the ghost of arbitrariness had taken over Manish, he did not listen to anyone, he only completed the tasks according to his wish. This habit of his used to disappoint me a bit, but I did not feel too bad because such things happen in youth. When Manish got a job in a company, there was talk of marriage for him. Soon Manish got married. Sushil married Nirma. Nirma came to the house as a daughter-in-law and took care of all the responsibilities on her own. Along with me, she used to respect and honor everyone, besides this she also used to work in a company. She stood on her own feet. She was independent, was not dependent on anyone, was capable of doing any work herself, was well skilled in sewing, knitting, cooking etc. All in all, Nirma's arrival has filled the house with a good deal of happiness. The house was filled with excitement because of his arrival. Smiles started appearing on his face.

Meanwhile, Manish got a good offer from a multinational company. That she decided to take US citizenship shocked me. I explained a lot but he didn't budge. Finally called Pyarelal ji, he said to Manish that "I agree that it is a question of your progress, your future will be built on this decision. But just imagine what will happen to father's heart with this decision of yours. When in childhood, father held you by the hand. He used to come to school to drop them and used to kill them while sitting in the class. So what was going through your mind. It was just a matter of 6 hours but you are talking about getting citizenship directly. This will shatter their feelings. Mother- Living in father's heart is the biggest citizenship and for this citizenship love is not necessary but visa is required.I suggest here that you may go abroad for four paise but as long as the parents are alive at least their Do not give up the citizenship of living in the heart. After his death, take the citizenship of wherever you feel like." I do not understand how to thank Pyarelal ji.