My Mentors4 mins 28 4 mins 28
"I'll follow and keep with me your these teachings throughout my whole life."- I showed my gratitude by touching the feet of my feet maternal grandfather Shri Raghuveer Singh ji when he told me that it may his last lesson during his illness. I may swear that his teaching has converted my way of life and personality. I also follow his those teachings also which I learnt from him before it. I have to tell here that I was with my maternal grandfather and maternal grandmother.
I remember his words-"Khalee se begaar bhalee kyonki tumhe kuchh naya seekhne ko milega. Hamesha achchhe logon ka saath karo aur achchhe kaam karo. Ishwar par hamesha bharosa rakho liken yaad rakho Ishwar unheen ki madad karta hai jo poori himmat ke saath apne shubh lakshya ko prapt karne ke lagataar koshish men lage rahte hain. 'Udhau baure log sayane' Chalaak logon se bachkar raho. Ye Chalaak log seedhe logon ke seedhepan ka fayda uthakar dhokha dekar apna kaam nikal lete hain."
The meaning of these words is that remain always active if you have nothing to do then work without any payment or free of cost as you will learn something new. Always be in the company of good fellows and do always good deeds. Always have faith in God but keep remember that the God helps only those who always keep restless efforts to achieve their good aims with whole heartedly and regularly. In this world be aware of cunning type of people as they use and deceive the gentle persons for their own benefit.
Applying his teachings I always tried to achieve goodness from good fellows with whom I got a chance to observe them.
Now he is no more with me but his immortal teaching are for ever. His teachings are being reflected in my conduct and behaviour. These teachings always inspire, encourage and show me path during moments of doubt. I find these teachings very helpful to transform me as the individual of present time.
We are living in this apparent world. As change is the eternal truth. Everything in the nature is changing at every moment. The impact of a thing or a person influences us in different manner at different times. Similar thing or person may influence different persons in different manner. The impact of the influence depends on different factors like attitude, time, place, mood etc.
My elder brother Mr M P Singh ji also influenced me lot. He was the eldest son my maternal uncle and I got chance for to be with him for a few years. My literary work is inspiration. I used to see his articles, stories and poems in the magazines. I usually made discussion in this regard and he guided me with great patience. I used to write and show him. He used to appreciate and suggest me. In the village, the educated youths visit him regularly for his guidance. During the discussion, I remain there as a good listener. The discussion regarding studies, career and social behaviour crept into me indirectly which helped me a lot to upgrade my conduct and behaviour. The use of Unsolved Papers for preparation of exam was his suggestion which helped me a lot to do better in my exams. In village scenario women were usually ill treated. It was his inspiration that youths change their attitude. He inspired us to present oneself as a role model to change others. Be gentle upto limited level but be conscious towards your dignity. He inspired to get suggestions from various sources but make your own decision. Plan your own way and follow the schedule with perfect care and zeal. Never hesitate to discuss, recognise your strength. Always have alternatives your main plan. Don't be afraid of failures, try again and again.
I am very grateful to having such great mentors for transforming my life. It is the result of their inspirations that I am in this satisfactory position. I thank God for his blessings and provide such great mentors whose teachings enlight my path to move in the direction.