I also need some Space
I also need some Space
"Angad...! Listen... Now the time has come that... you too get happiness!"
Today everyone was very happy in the house.
Why not? The only son of the house was going to take his daughter-in-law today. His marriage was fixed in the nearby city itself, Angad was also very happy that after meeting Anuradha he had decided to marry her. Anuradha's views on marriage were very sophisticated and very open.
When he said,
"I always give priority to familyBut at the same time, I believe that everyone in the family must get some space for themselves, this makes the relationship even closer!"
Then Angad felt that this is the girl he was looking for.
Even...
Anuradha also liked Angad's good-natured and well-educated.
After marriage, everything was going well. But one thing was very disturbing. That is, Anuradha would take her tea every evening and go to the terrace or sometimes she would sit in a corner of the courtyard for some time and sit very quietly for some time. At that time she would either listen to a song or read a book, but at that time she would not talk to anyone.
Then she used to sit there for half an hour and later helped in the kitchen with Amma.
Amma used to find it very strange that why does Bahuria, who is always smiling and talking, sit alone for some time in the evening completely silent?
But... poor innocent Amma how to ask this thing from Modern Bahuria?
Saw it for one day, saw it for two days and saw it for many days.
Almost the same thing everyday.....After all, Amma could not help it, so one day Bahuria, who was putting roti on the pan, felt the steam of hot roti on the edge of her finger, then Amma applied ghee to Anuradha's face, then she found her Bahuria so innocent.
That...Amma wanted to hug this innocent doll-like daughter-in-law.
How scared Bihuni was looking because of burning a little finger.
And when Amma was applying ghee on her burnt finger, what a childlike face Anuradha, the innocent bahuriya, had become.
all the more.....
Amma felt at that slightest injury when she had tightly held the end of Amma's lapel,
"She is Radhiya... absolutely Radhiya..Radhiya does the same whenever she gets hurt.
Radhiya was the name of Amma's daughter who had gone to her in-laws house after getting married and now she used to come as a guest for a few days.
Yes, when Amma was very much in love with Bahuria, she dared to ask,
"Tell me one thing, Bahuria, Why do you become completely silent every evening for an hour. Doesn't drink evening tea with us. You go completely alone.
Don't you like us all? Or if there's anything else, tell me!"
Hearing this, Anuradha raised her head and looked at Amma's face carefully and then smilingly said,
"Hey! That's why I spend some time with myself!"
“Hain… What is the time of E-Me, Bahuria? Please explain to us too!”
It means spending some time with yourself throughout the day so that you can think about yourself.
Amma was very happy to hear that. asked softly,
"Ok, can I also do this me time?"
"Why not Ammaji!!"
But.... "You always take out your Me Time everyday!"
Amma was startled and asked,
How is that?
"You who sing Radha-Krishna's hymns for some time every afternoon after finishing all the work and sometimes you look at yourself in the mirror after doing your makeup and sometimes you walk alone in the eveningThat's your own time!"
"Okay... so here it is!"
By saying Bholi Bhali Amma became calm but her curiosity was not properly calmed.
One day Bahuria went to the market with her son and brought some beautiful plastic and some steel boxes for the kitchen and decorated the kitchen with them. Also got the old tin canisters thrown away and got the big brass tokna cleaned so well that everything shines like new.
While cleaning the kitchen, she said clearly,
"I want to decorate this house in my own way Amma! Don't interfere in my work right nowIf I don't like it, I will do everything again as before. And one more thing... Neither I will interfere in your work nor you in mine. Only then can we both be happy together in this house forever!"
At that time, Amma found Anuradha to be a very clever bahuriya. She also felt that she will not throw them out of the house tomorrow, just as she is taking out the old boxes from the kitchen? But as time passed...!
Amma started liking him very much, in a way she started sacrificing her life for this
Careless daughter in law.
Actually Anuradha was the choice of his son Angad...
That's why Gayatri ji was a little apprehensive. Anyway, the mother-in-law considers the daughter-in-law of the son's choice as a witch who has controlled her son with magic. And a little bit remains scattered from it. Like Gayatri ji was initially separated from Anuradha.
By the way, Anuradha had made the whole house crazy about her. But his candor was sometimes disturbed.
As she used to say..
"Today I just want to do some work in the room, do not disturb me."
It was understood by everyone that if Bahuria speaks clearly and if she does it according to her mind.
From that day...
She did not disturb her and started thinking what should be done so that her adjustment with the new daughter-in-law could be done well.
Gradually, both adopted each other with their good and bad habits and their relationship kept getting better.
Now both mother-in-law and daughter-in-law used to do household chores and also took time out to do the work of their choice. In this way, apart from the responsibilities of the house, by spending some time with each other, there was a lot of closeness between the two and their love for each other also remained intact.
That's why Gayatri ji had started sprinkling her life on this cute girl .
In relationships,
if....each other is given time for their own sake, then the closeness between them does not decrease but increases further.
(End)