Her Exploited Life Partner

When I notice the life of a married girl, there are many ups and downs of married life. All girls have beautiful dreams for their upcoming married life. But when she knew the dates of her marriage, she felt a loud vibration inside her heart. She becomes very sad that finally the marriage date has been fixed when she has to leave her parents & and her only younger Brother, her beloved friends and her loved one along with her birthplace. Those relations are all her 1st priority now, and these relations may become secondary for her. But on the other side, as time changes, she is in such deep love with her life partner as much as her family. She can’t leave him. She told me she couldn’t explain in words how much she loved him. She always wants to keep her family happy. So, she gives equal importance, love, care, and 1st priority to her in-law's Family. That’s why she was trying her best to accept her in-laws' Family as her own family for the last 10 months. She wants to give them all the happiness in the world, she wants to be like her family (Mother, father, and brother); they should always be happy and smiling and laughing all the way. Sometimes she feels extremely confused. She is fine very difficult to concentrate on study & and work.

While talking to her I feel she is not mentally prepared for marriage. She always avoids the topic of “marriage” & and she can’t understand how she would handle both families. While talking to her, she told me that she wants to remove the sadness of her new family. Whatever they face and have experienced in the past she wants to remove and want to bring a smile to their face all the time. If she can do so then it’s enough success for me. It’s shocking, who is unknown to her, instantly he became so close to her heart. She loves him so much, that she already gives him everything mentally. He is the person whom she loves most, never happened before.

But after her marriage, So many horrible things come in front of her. The behavior of her husband has changed drastically. He mentally harassed her so many times and also physically harassed her a few times which she never shared with anyone even with my parents. She broke down totally but still, she was doing her duty. She tolerates him all the way because she selflessly loves him. Still, I couldn’t accept and believe that she had been living such a horrible life after marriage.