Fall In Love With Someone Mature

darling, fall in love with someone mature because…

They won’t invade your personal space. your parents fought again last night. your best friend has been avoiding you. you spent the entire day alone, doing nothing. when they called, they knew something was up from your cold replies. but they didn’t batter you to share things with them. they understand the concept of ‘me-time’. they understand that sometimes, you just need a companion, not a listener.

They don’t get personal. whenever you two fight, they don’t invalidate your feelings or listen to you just for the sake of it. they listen to understand your point of view. they don’t want drama. they want to sort things, too. and when they are at fault, they acknowledge and apologise.

They didn’t snoop around. when you tell them you were out with your friends, they don’t doubt you. they don’t need reassurance or explanations. they understand the simple truth of love – if there’s no trust, there’s no love. they don’t ask questions likes – “do you love me?”, “where were you?”, “who were you talking to when i called?”

They understand that two people don’t have to end up as one person. you like books and they like movies. somehow, you two find a middle ground. they say things like, “we’re individuals with different interests, but that doesn’t mean we can’t be together and help each other grow.”

They won’t fight with you when you reply late or fall asleep early. they won’t expect you to talk all day either. they understand that you’re an independent person with a life of your own.

When you love someone mature, they will fight for the future. you’ve a past but they’ll not be threatened by it. they understand you’ve had past lovers. they believe you.