Before you love others..
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They say critics are your the best teachers because they tell you honestly about the things you should do or should not do. Criticism acts as a negative motivator and creates a high urge in us to achieve "that", which is criticized. But we as human narrowing the gap between criticizing about appropriate things and criticizing "everything" and which is leading to the situation where every Tom, Dick, and Harry is Criticising every possible thing. This does not call as boosting the will-power rather lowering the self-esteem.
The irony of this is- We, are the biggest critics of our own self! Yes, you heard me right. On everything we keep on complaining about things we have - "I am too fat", "Oh! I can carry this dress, look how chubby I am looking" or "I can't do this, I have never done this before", "I wish I could have enough money to buy this or that".Every day either we are complaining about what Life has given us or do not like the way we are. In short- we are never happy!
In the era of lovers of all sort of romantic love stories or open relationship, dating apps, etc. ; we often forget to love yourself. We are earning to spend more on expensive and trendy clothes, getting addicted to every fashion videos, getting tattoos, getting look transformation, getting branded cars and many more. But in amidst of these, we are lacking the love of living in what we have or whatever is coming in our way..
We like ourselves for one or two days and then on the other day, we are back to the same situation- and this is one of the main reason of us not able to be happy in our own skin or in the life which we (humans- the privileged of all) have!
No matter how much money we have in our wallet but it always feels like a penny to us when we see others. No matter how much efforts the makeup artist does on us, we still don't really feel that good to see our selves while clicking photos with others. No matter how beautiful house we have, it still feels small in front of others house.
This is the beginning of "depriving ourselves of love". Until we learn to love what we have, others will not be able to love us. Even if they do, all we will do is - CRITICISE!
So my dear readers, before you start loving others- LOVE YOURSELF, LOVE THE LIFE you have!