Overrated And Pacifying

Count me in if you are one of those who have been in a situation when you are left with this standalone statement 'You are not just alone in this, there are many people who are suffering more than you' being whispered in to your ears .

If not you, let me be the lone wolf who is going to this to bring in a different perspective to this overrated statement of concern.

It is definitely not my anger leadimg to bite the fingers that feed you.

Likewise, I am not psychotic to find faults with a person who tries to give you the shoulders for lean.

But my introspection leads me to a question like are we doing it the right way.

Are we acting as a reliable source of support for a person sobbing and weeping internally .

We hear them, but hardly listened.

We give shoulders to lean, but also taken an added advantage to conveniently tap their shoulders easily and convey your words of wisdom to look at others who are below your status of suffering .

We give them these words for nullifying the pain which actually pacifies someone to be at their worst.

When everyone are different, everyone's struggles equally differ without enough scope of comparison.

For a child losing its favorite doll is a pain and so is the intensity when adult loses someone they love.

Both of these pains are totally unrelated and so can neither be compared as well.

But, the pain one undergoes both of these situations is dead serious despite age, gender, social circumstances or any parameter that you bring to derive that commonailty between the pain of two different individuals.

Because it is individualistic which means it is independent of anyone and anything.

And if we begin to draw comparison to stage one's pain over another, this is I call it as an heightened level of inequality questioning mankind and humanity.

When all someone need is a felt compassion words are meant to be encompassing not really comparing.

Or its better to be present without a say when we didn't actually walked someone's path

Or it is even more better to leave without a say when we can't do it right..

Afterall one cannot drive humanity without being humane.