You Are Not Born A Winner; You Are Not Born A Loser. You Are Born A Chooser
You Are Not Born A Winner; You Are Not Born A Loser. You Are Born A Chooser6 mins 765 6 mins 765
Having been in lockdown for several months now, it’s not surprising that many of us have explored the untouched side of ourselves. This period has come up with a 360-degree turn in our lives. It has taught us to enjoy the present, rediscover passions, connect with nature, and value coexistence. I'm not the same person now than the one I was at the beginning of all this?
As I believe Just be yourself, there is no one better. You are the outcome of hard work and effort. We may not have natural born talent, but that doesn’t define our accomplishments and how far we can go in life. We can spend days feeling sorry for ourselves because we feel like we aren’t as gifted as the people around us, but that isn’t going to do anything other than breaking us down. The fact is, if we want something, we must work for it and put in all that we have to achieve it. Nobody else around us really matters, and how fast they improve has nothing to do with us. We will never know what we can truly be, push your limits, it will not kill you! Make sure you know that nothing in this hard world is handed to you. You must work for it! When it seems like everything is falling apart, and nothing is going right; let your mind know that you believe in yourself. Nothing kills talent and great motivation. I believe life is a outcome of the consequences of the choices we make. Winning and losing is the outcome of choices we have made in past. Winning and losing is not the outcome of choices we have made in past. I believe no one is a born winner or a born loser, it is we who write our own destiny. No one helps a caterpillar to get out from pupa, but it's his own struggle which transform him into a butterfly. Nothing comes without hardwork and hardwork doesn't go in vain. So work hard till you achieve your goal. We need to prioritize one thing among many that which is most needed for us and for our family. Choosing wise is more important in life and that shows who we are. Our hardwork, persistence and luck create winners in ourselves. On the other hand if we fail no matter how many times, we should choose to stand up and stop not till we reach our goal. I feel adversity teaches us to fight back and to be stronger. Don't downgrade your dreams to fit into reality, upgrade your convictions to match your destiny. I truly believe in this. The way we perceive ourselves is the reason how our actions turn out to be and finally into our destiny. There is a hidden winner in everyone we just need to polish ourselves to bring out the real diamond from within and be self- motivated all the time. Our destiny is our own hands we decide our faith, if we truly want to become a winner then we are going to become a winner. If we are not clear about our ambition then we will end up losing. It's our choice and our own decision. No one is a born winner or a loser but every person is a chooser because they decide to be what they are in present, they decide whether they want to go for their passion. It totally depends on you whether you have the courage to follow your dreams or not and do immense hardwork to achieve them all. It doesn't matter how we win or why we lose, it's a part of life. But the most important thing in our life is to choose a correct path. Life offers many options and it depends on us How we choose our life ahead to be and How we solve every single difficulty in our own way with confidence and intelligence so that afterwards we don't repent for our choice or decision. I believe that whatever you want to be only or achieve in life is all because of you. We are learners, to learn from our experiences and failures to able to grow into a successful person to who we are yesterday. What you believe in and How you wish to See your life is exactly how things work out for you. It's all within and How strong your belief is to attract whatever is best for you. So if you believe that you can succeed without an inch of a doubt, you will manifest it for yourself. It's a winning mindset that plays a major role. You Must have a dream and give wings to your dream, work hard for it. Your struggle and your hardwork will pay off one day and you will be successful definitely. Choose your dream and you will be the winner. Well, I believe that everyone starts their life score with a 0. As we grow and age we keep adding up to that score now it's our determination, dedication and honesty that makes that number High. The tag of a winner or a loser doesn't matter, what matters is How we treat ourselves and what we think. A brilliant person can still be a loser if he thinks he is not good enough and a person who hasn't achieved great heights can still be a winner if he chooses to believe in himself. It's up to you if you want to be a winner or loser. If you choose a Certain path where you are totally determined to achieve your goals and put your 100% into it, Then definitely you are going to win and will be a loser if you choose to be a lazy person filled with all the excuses. I believe that being born as someone who has the ability to choose in life is itself a win because in this world there had been and there are people who due to wars, calamities, communal or non-communal suppression or some other circumstances never had a choice to choose. We are born as choosers because it depends on us whether to struggle and be winners or to admit and sir in corner as losers. There is one beautiful line which I appreciate " jo paani se nahata hai, vo sirf libas badlta hai, par jo pasine se nahata hai vo itihas badlta hai." It is all matter of choice. When one is mentally strong to achieve something and Works for it then he chooses to win. It is said that if you fail to prepare you are preparing to fail. My self worth is never attached to my victories and losses because of my skills. And skills are developed, we choose to develop them so that when the opportunity comes we are all ready grasp it.
Lastly, never let us off easy. ‘The only person that you should try to be better than is the person you were yesterday’. You were not born a winner, and you were not born a loser. It's a law of attraction. That is whatever we think and aim for surely comes to our way. So if someone believes he/she could be successful then they can be. You are what you make yourself, so make yourself great!