Self Mess

Knowingly or unknowingly, we all are self-destroyers at a point. Expectations hurt the most, whether they are from a person or our own fate. Not a single person is unaware of this, but many still mess up themselves. We are the destroyers and saviors. No one can hurt you as much as you hurt yourself. You know yourself better than anyone else, and that's why it is necessary to know your self-worth and value it rather than just taking ourselves for granted. 

At times, we mess up to an extent where we don't have a second chance, no comeback.

To know this and accept it is not an easy task, but you have to and find a new route for yourself. Being messy is just fine until it hinders your self-confidence and your worth. Don't allow yourself to get stuck at such a point where there's no comeback or substitute. Get messed up, get stuck, try hard, opt for the best from it, and mold it in a different way. Bring out the best in you. Know your worth and let the mess in you shape the best you.