Love..complex??

All what we want in life----love and acceptance ..one follows the other in an unique way ..this process is not understood properly but yet judged the most. We prefer to use judgement as our most important tool of understanding...needless to say it fails most of the time, though we love to think it is the other way.  

Most of the complexity revolves around this one very strong emotion -love. The most needed yet the most complex....there is no denying that we need it .. .but complexity arises when we start to put a clause in there ----customised love...tailored in a way to suit our whims and fancies ...when settling for less is not an option, we are having this urge to measure the immeasurable ...complexity and grief are sure to follow...