KARWA: The Queen Or The Maid

Life is really an intriguing journey.

Last night was talking to a friend. Have witnessed many cases of my married friends, knowns, and colleagues. Different stories, all in one frame. People as a family spend years together with good and bad. Marriage undoubtedly is a big commitment. If you are married, kerwachaut or not, respect it. Matters not who keeps it or not keeps it. It all depends on how far you have walked after everything but still had been kept going and are seen together as a couple. The habit and the decision that, come what may, you cannot accept or decide for anyone else but the same person with whom you want to grow old with. If you cannot stand with someone, walk or take care, support and talk, you got no right at all to pursue them. Never play a two-faced game coz end of the day no one is a fool here. You are not happy that is your problem who knows if you ask the other side of the table, the reply could be worse.

Everyone is their best lawyer, but worse critic.No house window has a clean breeze. The broader picture and the truth is you are married and in a family which no one can change. This person or that person, new have been always interesting and with time, things change. Happens even with a roommate or in any professional or personal relation too. It's Human. Males and Families should realize that a life of a girl is very exclusive. Most do not respect women. It is not a shopping Mall that you will buy everything which pokes your fancy. Hold the hand tightly, do not leave on crossroads. When you make a commitment, stick to it. Walking a Living together is much more than Sharukh's romance or some choti badi love story. Days are spent telling the real picture of every relation. The oddness of preferences, lifestyles, illness, mood swings, and whatnot. When you pass all, still care, support, and be there in thick and thin, then say love or relation. Otherwise, all drama. Somewhere even being a bachelor I feel Marriages should be respected than all twisted insecure forms of modern relations. Inculcate in your kids the respect for marriage and relations. Growing up should be on strong foundations. Happy Kerwachaut 2021 to all beautiful married ladies. May your love be infinite and may you have a long beautiful and loving life with your husbands.