I am warrior

Let me introduce myself n my life My self Harshita, we a are 3 sisters, I m on second no, we used to live in joint family , my mom is the elder daughter in law with 4 daughters-in-laws , all my coaches are blessed with boys but only my mother is blessed with 3 daughters, that time even today life also people used to think boys are much superior then girl , my grandmother used to neglect my mother n said ( teri betiya hoti hai apni kis bhi devarani se baat mat karna na uske samne ana jab Bhi vo pregnant ho)my mum is principle before marriage in Meerut university n when she gets married she faced many problems my dad also used to tell mom ( betiyo ko public school me tumne dala hai khud fees do) mum used to take tuitions n. Submit our fee, we used to see my mum's expoilt. when I was in 11 std my roka was done with the boy who was taking home tuitions that time n because we r 3 sister's n orthodox family my mother also thinks (ghar bethe rista agaya hai thik hai vese bhi 2 betiya ur bhi hai,).

I get married before my elder sister because its already 3 yrs fr my marriage in between I complete my studies n fashion designing course n computer course because my mother always believed that girls have to stand on their feet, I get married on 19 men 2004, after 15days we get separated only with no money but I carry all my stuff which my parents given in my marriage because I have 4 sisters-in-laws they interfere very much, faced many financial problems my daughters, in between i. convince my mother in law want boy , they used to give medicine fr giving birth of baby boy i m aneamic i faced many problem they not allow me to meet my parents or talk even..because I was staying with my inlaws because of complications when I was 5 months pregnant n my mum used to call on landline phone but I cant talk properly in front of them, on 3 sep my barbie bhumika was born , when I get to know baby girl was born i get so worried that how they react with me now because I already see these in my own family too, but when I transfer to normal room I see all the reaction they r not happy, I take daughter n get back to inlawas home because my husband told me you dont know how to care a baby so stay till namkarn , after 21 st day complete namkaran done I decide I want to go back home dont want to expolit more n emotionally torture more because wheeler my parents can do for me that is not enough for my inlaws they want more things n expected more expensive gifts , I came back even my husband dont share that I came back home. Then I decided to start n visit my parents home because they make my mind so negative because of negative environment in my inlaws, in between so many fights for financial problem going on my husband used to work in call center n night duties r always there, me only one who take of my child even day n night , hubby used to sleep in day time n work in night time.

I decided when my daughter is 2.5 yrs I start doing job n my mother take care of my daughter Bhumika, then also I used to so loyal to my hubby I give my ATM card to my husband n when I ask for money again he starts fighting with me, we live in rented house I fed up to change again n again, he told me to get money from your parents so we can buy our own home, I decide to take home loan n my parents give gold set in marriage. I sold that gold set n some more thing fr down payment of home now we take a home loan, still, so many financial problems were there. In 2012 hubby planning with his cousin to going to New Zealand, I get to know when all thing did n he has no money for a ticket , I ask this for my parents to give money. Now he has gone with the wind without any family financial planning n now me n my daughter faced all those problems, when he went I get to know he takes one personal loan from axis bank now police came at my place n ask abt, my husband,, I contact my husband n clear did you take any loan he said yes , now he is not paying installments , till that time my home loan axis bank installments n house expenses my expenses my child playschool expenses many more me take care of it n parents help me in between. I decided to tell all these things to my inlaws i went there with my sister his parents just told us we talk to our son. But nothing happens ,in between the visit only one in a year , Me and Bhumika went to new Zealand fr 8 months there , that time also so many misunderstandings he can't afford us, because I try to find jobs there I used to do dishing job in bakery , I try to adjust with him, but can't work out so he decides to send us back he came back in 2016 N told all in family that he coming for his family but I never felt that he is coming back for us .

Because he doesn't have enough money for applying permanent residence of Newzealand that why he came back. He used to beat me he became drug-addicted, drinker smoker, womanizer, he used export metal emotionally physically tortured from him. , my daughter used to ask me, mom, all my certificate teacher write my father name now I will tell the teacher write my mother name ,, she is only 12 yr I n how deep thought she thinks in this age , I take never ignore my offuce because of all these , I used to go with cover my holy marks because I know he never fulfill my n my daughters need, how can i survive with him I used to ask him why u doing all these he , tell me I and very tense abtmy future then the next question is what can I do how much I m tense do you imagine , I never back off my responsibilities even take care of home, now on last 10 nov 2018 he inform in family that his ofis send fr 3months to australia but after 2 days we received one message that he is in new Zealand , sold bike car told us they r parked at parking now tell me where my trust stand , He is a coward man ran aways from his responsibilities , I confront take stand as a female n take care of my child my parents r helping, now I file case in women cell now 4 hearing done his parents totally denay that they did know anything abt his son but I knew that they all r playing games with me n my child life.

NOW I DECIDED TO TAKE STAND N FILE MAINTAINANCE CASE AGAINST MY HUSBAND N INLAWS N TOLD THEN CALL YOUR SON TO BE LEGAL SEPERATION N I WANT MY CHILD FULL MAINTAINANCE, AS I AM A FEMALE I CONFRONT OF ALL ANSWER ALL THE QUESTION NEVER BACK OFF NOW MORE STRONGER THEN EARLIER, HE IS COWARD WHY HE RAN AWAY ..SELF CENTRED PERSON ............NOW

#IAMWARRIOR# my barbie Bhumika now 12 yrs she n me a family she is my strength my power I m fighting to live for her, right one day she will tell the whole world that my mum is tigress and I make my barbie more powerful tigress...... You people used to watch Patiala babes serial my daughter likes a lot because that story is somehow very similar to my n my barbie Bhumika's life........