Bad Parenting Results in Great Loss

Good Parenting is very important in life. One feels at the top of the world when he or she hears that they will be going to become a parent. With going to become a parent, comes a lot of responsibility, and that we can summarise as parenting.

The story is of a girl named Abha who was of age 14 years. She was a very talented child. She use to study hard and get top rank in her academics. Her father never trusted her abilities. With higher classes, there comes lot of academic burden. She told her father that she will manage her studies on own. But her father never listened to her. He made her attend three tuitions of Maths, Science and English. 

It was a great torture to her. Does parenting means just enforcing decision on children?

Abha was very disturbed. She was not able to do neither School homework nor self studies. Each day she use to cry and got frustrated. Now she couldn't share anything with her own parents.

One day she was not able to do her school homework. Her school teacher was so angry and wanted to punish her. She bursted in tears and cried and said, i failed,i failed as I fail to manage my time. 

The parents were called and was discussed the matter.

Parents should understand that if the child is capable,then they should trust their child capabilities.

All home tuitions were immediately stopped. Abha secured 100 percent in Mathematics.The parents were happy .

Time passes but parents of Abha still never gave time to listen to Abha.

One day Abha was coming back to home.

The group of boys on the bike hit at back of Girl. Such eve teasing in very common for people. But it was heart breaking for Abha. She was very sad,and chooses to stay in dark room. And on Asthami, in front of Goddess Durga she hanged herself over a phone.

Where was problem? Why parents don't understand that it is very important to understand that what the kids think ? How they live? About their anger? About their friends circle? 

What if the parents share a bond of friendship with their kids. This will make child to open and share their problems with their parents.

Abha is no more in this world.But she wants to get answer of every question still being un answered?

Why those boys didn't respected other girl? Were they not born from women? What happiness or satisfaction they got doing eve teasing? Why parents never break their ego and atleast be a good listener? Why child cant make or take their own decision?