Simple boy, now poisonous man!

Mon -- "You had a baby right after marriage. The boy is now three years old. You gave the boy to boarding school now."

Monta --"You understand the present time, how much money is needed. Wife's job must be maintained.

There are no people in my house. Who will take care, say?"

Mon - "Why should grandma be human. And the child should be allowed to grow up naturally. If you are human to your own people, love, affection, affection, love, emotions will not subside. Keep will be created for you.

We don't know how much emotional needs a newly growing baby need. Do you think that people become human only by giving food and education?

Monta-- "Yes love needs praise doesn't it? There is wisdom.

"Anamika" you know so educated! Is it right to retire from his job? And what can I force?"

(Three years have passed.)

Mon - "All the time you are angry, bickering. Lack of adjustment. The sage will grow up to think that it is okay to be angry. There is nothing wrong with you. What will he learn?"

Who will I explain to Anami? A few years to show the sage. If you see money, you will not be a man."

Anamika--"The boy is studying well in school. It takes 8 to 10 thousand rupees per month. You have to work to earn this money."

Mon -- "Can you say I am a very close person ie a friend. I don't know if it is right to give my suggestion. "Anamika" you are right too".

Look, your son has risen to class seven."

Mon -- "Monta was telling me about your son's problem."

Anamika--"Yes, I have seen the doctor. The doctor said that it is due to neglect and carelessness in childhood. He is very irritable and does not listen to anyone. Bad temper.

Rishi Grandma doesn't answer well when called.

Now I understand, control over the situation Much more than that. Trauma caused by an event such as a natural disaster, violence, accident, global pandemic, terrorist attack.

Complex trauma describes when a young child experiences multiple chronic stressors such as neglect by their primary care provider, food insecurity, physical or sexual abuse, racial discrimination, separation from loved ones, or homelessness. At such a ghat.

Sometimes the lockdown has also affected it," said the doctor.

Monta - "Sage behavior is frightening.

Crying, throwing tantrums, kicking, throwing, irritability, disruption, clenched fists, clenched or clenched jaw, screaming, nausea.

Now I understand that raising a son is the most important thing. What happens in the run to money if the boy is not human."

"Besides, the colorful days of childhood left behind still make the eyes wet. One wants to go back again and again to those golden days.

We were human. Maybe the father didn't have much money, but the joy was immense Pooja Mahananda was celebrated with a single-faced gun and a roll cap. "

Mon - "Didn't even have the money to buy a bicycle but can you stop the joy? With the old tires of the bicycle or rickshaw, the joy with friends was doubled".

Now money comes with many things. "Famous, expensive chocolates are far away. Day after day is spent well in 10-paisa lozenges."

Monta -- "How many times have I gone back and forth to play Ekka, Dokka or Kitkit, but I have left the games of life. There were no mobiles, no video games." Still, how much fun it was in childhood. Spinning the lattu with a lattu, this game could not be left out even after eating earmola. "He's the past now. "Anamika -- "Childhood is the best time of life. Parents found the only right way to live is to become a human being without losing it. Now money and complicated life."

Mon -- "A few days ago, while entering an elite shopping mall in South Calcutta, my eyes were stuck on a petite beauty."

Anamika -- "Why why? What did you see!"

Mon --" I admired the dress. Then my eyes went to the girl's hair. Beautiful! A bunch of curly hair hanging over the shoulders. Is it natural? The question came to mind"!

Anamika --- "Naturally". Straightening her hair along her neck?"

Mon --"Not only that, shoulder-length curls. Definitely the handiwork of a skilled beauty parlor worker."

Absolutely the handiwork of a skilled beauty parlor worker Now, I thought this kid had to sit and endure heat, curling, dyeing etc. for several hours due to this hair manipulation.

Anamika --"It's common for little girls of eleven and above to have lipgloss, kajal, deo-spray, etc. They put them on when they go to the toilet. And high school girls often 'streak', 'straighten' their hair.

Mon --"All these activities are exposed to their parents. Many times, they think it is normal.

Anamika -- "And in the rest they say, boys and girls listen.

Mon --"Things start spinning. No parent wants their child to dress up! But how far is this dress up? Aren't kids 'growing up' much faster than their biological puberty?"

Anamika -- "Do you have time to think seriously about it?"

Mon --" As a direct result of globalization, children are exposed to new fashion and media trends every moment. The lure of advertising and attractive packages makes beauty products irresistible to them."

Monta - "We want to fulfill the unfulfilled desires and dreams of our lives through our children. It is a very natural instinct."

Monta --"When the competition is fiercer and fiercer all over the world, quick recognition, quick fame, success and results are what we keep in mind."

Anamika -- "Somewhere we are not willing to give the time to blossom from the bud to flower. We are getting the result in our hands."

Monta --"Many of our generation grew up under the umbrella of a joint family. The children used to nag at the mother and take shelter under the grandmother's lap. Now in the nuclear family, where both the parents are working, the mother has to take a lot of pressure. It is possible for the mother to monitor the child's every moment. No. So, the child gets busy with the play station and the TV. How far will the parents accept all this earnestness? They don't know exactly were.

Monta - "Just celebrating a birthday in a restaurant with disco lights, then he should be told that birthday means partying with friends, playing games, eating cake, why would he need a place like that? We often have mobile phones in our kids' hands for safety reasons." Handing over the phone. But giving him a smartphone or opening his Facebook account is not work."

Anamika -- "It is necessary to develop a sense of responsibility in children along with developing a sense of entitlement. Loving a child does not mean taking unfair advantage of his whims."

Mon--"Now see children are dressed as children. And that's what makes them look good. Instead of boasting about fashion or expensive gadgets, they should be proud of their skills. Parents, teachers, relatives - everyone has a responsibility to inculcate this value. Future generations will grow up." There is no avoiding this responsibility in terms of growth or development.

Anyway, treat your son well. Hope to recover.