Grown ass men acting like boys

Grown ass men acting like boys 

So I have to ask what is with these grown ass men acting like boys? I get it when guys are young, they don't know what they want, or they want to play around because of their age and that's fine.

But what's with these grown ass men acting this way, didn't they learn or grow? This is not just me thinking or feeling this way. There are many dating groups out there that all the women speak about this same thing, so I know I am not alone. 

Why say you want a relationship when you just want the cookie? Why do they ghost you? Why not just speak up and say what's on your mind? We are grown, act that way. If you're not feeling it, pick up the phone, be a man, say what you mean and mean what you say.

I have a business and a busy life, I don't have time for games. I'm not Willy Wonker. I don't sugar coat shit, why waste your time and why waste mine?

Most women tell you upfront what they are looking for, so why then come at us with your life of bullshit if that is not what you want. We will not change our minds with your lines or your charms. 

For all of you men out there that will come at me about "Women doing the same things" I don't know I've never dated a woman so I can only speak from experience. If I ever decide to switch sides, I will definitely write about how women are.

But until then I can only write about what I know, which is the way men act.

Life is hard enough, why make it harder? We only get so much time here, I don't want to waste it on something that is not going anywhere. Again I am not saying that I want a relationship tomorrow but if that is my end goal and your end goal is just to get laid, do me a favor and don't waste my time.

I can remember when I was young and I wasn't looking for a relationship, I said that upfront, right away. I wasn't trying to lie to anyone, if you were okay with that fine, if not, I understand. But you can't come back at me later saying that you love me and because I don't feel the same way, now that's my fault. 

Even when you are upfront sometimes it doesn't work but at least you were honest from the go.

So today my friends remember, we all must own what we do and say. We must be honest so as not to hurt other people. Let other people make their own

choices but for the love of God, be a grown ass man about it. 

Grow up, stop luring women with your little boy lies. A woman will respect you more if you're honest and truthful. We've already dealt with boys, now only grown ass men need to apply.

"Be the change you want to see"

@TreadmillTreats