Trust

Trusting someone is not bad but trusting easily is a matter of thought. ... Do you trust people until they prove they can't be trusted or not trust anyone until they prove they can be trusted? ... If life is about trusting people, why is it so hard for people to just trust others?

And yet, trust is the basis of all human dealings. We are so dependent on human interactions that life would be impossible without trust. We trust our loved ones, friends, colleagues, and beyond. What would it be like if you didn’t trust the public transport you boarded, your own driver or your cook? What if the security guard at your gate didn’t have your trust?

What if you didn’t trust the bank where you deposit your money? Or the companies you invest in? Life would get chaotic and impossible, and you would become a paranoid basket case. So a certain amount of trust is inherent in our everyday transactions, and certainly in our closest relationships.

A lack of trust is responsible for breaking up many relationships. But you cannot demand trust; it needs to be earned over time and with experience. Some of us trust more easily than others. What makes it easier for you to trust someone? I usually trust people who make direct eye contact, are open with their gestures, are respectful and self-confident, those who speak the truth no matter what, people who maintain boundaries and do not ladle on fake compliments.

I lack in this, I trust very easily and so I get motor the time betrayed. I remember the worst betray I got from my friend I cant disclose here, but that day was literally worst when my best friend betrayed me just for the reason she got from some other person.

This upcoming year I'll surely change my habit of not trusting easily on one and first clearing to whether trust easily or not.