Evolution In LOVE

Every day in life is an evolution of ourselves. No matter how much we deny but we do transform and the most potent force in doing that is love. We fall in love with different types of people in life with each serving their own purpose and even though it is subjective but there are 3 types of love that most of us experience each with its unique depth...

First Love : 

This love often happens at a very tender age also call the teenage love. Most of you eventually grow apart or call it quits over silly things. When we get older, we may look back and think it wasn’t love but infatuation or perhaps curse ourselves for the reason that we have ended it and those that hold no meaning now. However, the truth is, it was. It was love for what we knew love to be without any expectations. Some are wise and are able to go the distance, but most don't... Then comes the...

Second Love: 

The tough one. You get hurt in this one. This love teaches us lessons and makes us stronger. This love includes great pain, lies, betrayal, abuse, drama, lust, sex and damage. 

But this is the one where we grow. We realise what we love about love and what we don’t love about love. Now we know the difference within love, lust and infatuation. Now we become closed, careful, cautious and considerate. We know exactly what we want and don’t want and this is the time when more than we learn about people, we get to know new insights about ourselves. We learn that acceptance is better than expectation... And then follows the...

Third Love: 

This one comes blindly. No warning. It creeps up on you silently. You don’t go looking for this love. It comes to you. You can put up any wall you want, it will be broken down. You’ll find yourself caring about that person without trying. They look nothing like your usual crush types, but you get lost in the depth of their eyes, daily. You see beauty in their imperfections. You hide nothing from them. You may want marriage and family with them. You thank the universe for them. You truly love them and no matter what, you never, ever, let go off them.