Society

She was beautiful. He was handsome.

She understood him. He handled her.

She cared for him. He worried for her.

They were perfect.

Society wasn't.

So she married him and he married her.

However these were the new 'him' & the new 'her'.

Selected by the society for them.

She named her son after the old 'him'

And he named his daughter after the old 'her'

Now society calls them secular because

Her son has a Hindu name and his daughter bears a Muslim one.