An Obligation

Sex isn't an obligation 

Regardless of your gender, role, or orientation. 

It's a choice you make, 

There has to be mutual consent,

It's not sex if you feel oppressed. 

It's rape and that's an offense. 

It isn't always forceful, 

Sometimes it's sweet talk to get you into bed 

It's a consistent "baby please" after you've said no

It's a "don't you love me?" to try and get you to change your mind 

It's not always black or white. 

Recognise the signs.